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Search Results: how to get him to notice me
Does a polished, formal style attract older men over guys my age?
Hey everyone, just wanted to get some thoughts on something I’ve been noticing lately. My everyday style tends to be pretty polished, formal, and put-together. Because of that, I've realized I rarely get approached by...
sophia2007
Xper 1 Age: 18 Black women only, What would you do?
So, there's this guy I was interested in. I'm black, he's Asian. I'm going to be honest, I was only interested in him at first because I thought maybe he was a little interested in me. So I took notice in him and thought...
brutalreality
Xper 1 Age: 110 Is this man interested or mostly just being friendly?
So, I am posting anonymously, not to troll or spam people, but to protect my privacy and that of the current man I'm interested in. I have Asperger's, so I don't read social cues or body language well. I am a mature, aged...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why don't arab countries invest more in school education? in student time and quality?
okay before you call me a *hypocrit for no capitals and wrong spelling. that is just easier for typing. not that i don't know traditional wasteful spelling like 'eight weight nyt night' etc. after a dot. Capital. anyway!...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 Does rehoming my cat due to money issues make me a bad person?
So like 3 years ago my mom got a kitten from the humane society. I showed some excitement and helped her pick it out, so it's kind of my fault that she adopted it. She paid for the kitten and signed the papers. She also...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Is my gym crush actually into me or the loud, flirty girl instead?
I have a gym crush. We’ve inside jokes, he has given me many compliments looks and personality. We support each other, shared personal things, meaningful moments together. I liked that it seemed to be developing...
Polly123
Xper 1 Age: 39 Have you noticed that the most anti gun American ownership people are not Americans?
Who are these fruit cakes? And why do they have buyers remorse? I smile when one of these fruit cakes gets arrested for a Facebook post. How civilized you are. Good on you! I don't live in a blue shit hole, so I've...
arizonasunshine
Xper 4 Age: 33 Is he genuinely attracted to me or love-bombing and negging my looks?
So I started chatting with a man that I met online who lives out of state. We’ve been talking consistently for about three weeks. He’s very respectful and very sweet. We’ve started to FaceTime, and I’ve noticed that he’s...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I call out this snobbish acquaintance or just let it go?
Long story short, there is woman that I've met before and conversed multiple times over message. I realized she's snobbish and thinks herself to be better than me. I am also aware that this attitude is not just limited to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Anyone else noticed that some users here, default to being mean and hateful when they don't like/agree with an opinion/question?
I get it, not everyone is going to like or agree with you're question or opinion and that's fine, but some users I've noticed, have the mindset, that any opinion/question they don't like/agree with isn't genuine and will...
Anonymous
(30-35) The way that anti-trump fool people, isn't it despicable?
i can see daffy duck agreeing: "desssspicablllle!" - notice: The asker was careful not to say a clear lie 'iran shot down jets' because she knew Kuwait did it! so instead they used fear and tricky words- that did fool...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 Are people more outraged by crimes against white babies than others?
The top two crimes that have caused global outrage due to the nature of it were James Bulger and Baby Preston. One was shy of turning 3 soon and Baby Preston was 13 months old. I've noticed both of those children have...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do men feel intimidated dating a woman who earns more than them?
I've been wondering about something and I'd really like honest opinions because I'm not sure if I'm overthinking it... Do some men genuinely feel insecure when they're dating or interested in a woman who's doing very well...
Veronika_p
Xper 4 Age: 26 Is it normal to get along with guys but clash with most women?
I don't know why but I noticed that women are rude, mean and lack respect for boundaries. That's my experience with them. I don't have these issues with guys. I also don't really start it with these women and don't really...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is It Natural For A New Employee To Be Jumpy?
The time I noticed this was not when we got acquainted but when I came up to talk to him.
Am I mistaking a natural flirt’s behavior for genuine interest?
For my job, the people I work with switch from shift to shift. Sometimes I meet new coworkers, other times I reunite with familiar ones. There’s this coworker (32M) I’ve become more familiar with in the past couple of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did my incarcerated friend make me his girlfriend without asking?
Long story short, I (40/f) have a male friend (35) who is currently doing a little bit of time behind bars. He’s ex military and had some issues after he got out. When we met, I was currently in a very bad relationship...
Anonymous
(36-45) If a rushed manager says the door is fine but it’s left unlocked, who’s at fault?
I've been working at mcdonalds for a few months. I work closing. We go out the back door sometimes when we leave for the night, and we have to make sure the alarm is aarmed. Tonight I was closing with the gm and another...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 What level of attraction do these repeated smiles and looks suggest?
At a conference, I don’t know this guy personally—he was on the band. One time I was leaving the bathroom and as I turned the corner he saw me. His eyes got wide, he smiled, and waved at me while still walking with...
Anonymous
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