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This discussion started a few days back when I went to meet a few of my friends. One of them commented - "you could be a fuckboy!" (Referring to another guy). The same was said to me once.

😂 This is just for fun, I'll describe the two guys (one of them being me). You decide whom you would consider to be a fuckboy and whom would you be interested in.

Guy1 features:

Is a professional singer and has a mesmerizing voice

Is humble but doesn't have much time for you as he's mostly busy with work

Is somewhat rich. Owns a car. Runs a business.

Has a lot of contacts with famous people (because of his job).

Is vegetarian. But doesn't mind if you are non vegetarian, as long as you don't force him to try non veg.

5'6" height. Healthy physique. Curly noodle-like hair.

Has a lot of friends but most of them are friends only for his fame. Very few genuine friends.

Likes to keep up with trends and fashion.

Does not drink/smoke for his voice, but enjoys parties and dancing and will sing for you.

You might get a free meals at top 5 star hotels as he has a lot of connections there.

Guy2 features:

5'8" height. Lean stature. Defined jawline.

Looks nerdy and is somewhat nerdy. Wears glasses.

Is humble and polite and very patient.

Sweet talker and will take out time for you if he's interested.

Has a mediocre job. No assets.

Very popular among his peers for his nature and behaviour. Had a lot of friends male/female.

Not a vegetarian.

Has a bland fashion sense. Wears overfit clothes and doesn't keep up with trends.

People tend to trust him very easily. Has the "innocent trustworthy guy" face

Does not drink or smoke or enjoy dance parties.

Which one seems interesting to you? Whom would you be interested to date? One of them is me (and I think it's obvious which one)

I think it does, reason is this:Some start with the mindset of "I'll fix him or her".. you can't fix anyone that doesn't want to be fixed
Most people are in toxic relationships today cos of the red flags they ignored. They know their relationships aren’t ideal, but they justify and rationalize their doubts away. Many of them would rather be in a poor relationship than no relationship at all.
An emotionally healthy person views being alone as better than being in a negative relationship but the desperate ones, think otherwise. A healthy relationship can be challenging to find, but it’s not an impossibility.
There are many signs of toxic relationships.
Physical or verbal abuse, Passive-aggressive behavior,
Lying. This needs little explanation. Does your partner lie to you? Do you find yourself telling lies just to keep the peace? Do you lie in order to avoid spending time with your partner? For example, do you tell your partner you have to help your mother, but you actually at home doing nothing?

There’s a relationship scorecard
Are you reminded on a regular basis about how you’re not pulling your own weight? Are past mistakes mentioned regularly even when you've apologized about it?
-Are you told that you have to wash the dishes because your partner swept the floor? Are you told this even though you’re swamped with work, and he’s just watching TV?
If you’re in a toxic relationship, extract yourself from it or seek professional relationship counseling
You might be too emotional to tell yourself the truth or you might be too weak to take the bold step, a counselor will help you make the right decisions. You might miss person afterwards but just because you miss someone doesn't mean you need them again in your life.

These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women
. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind, this could be worth a read:

1. Long (fake) nails
2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Big earrings
5. Provocative clothing
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content)
7. Questionable.. questions (e. g. "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored
11. S. I. G. N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Need to be right)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e. g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" )
14. Materialistic
15. Their actions don't follow their words
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things
20. Habit of lying as it could escalate over time
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'
23. Shit Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.”
24. Ultimatums
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure (s).*The issue is many don't seek professional help and/or properly work on themselves so they carry that mental/emotional baggage into their relationships.
27. They're often passive aggressive