Search Results: spark a conversation

How often is too often to start spicy texting In long distance relationships?

I’m in a long distance relationship and I’ve been wondering something. How many times is too much to bring up spicy texting. I try to keep the vibe fun and playful, not like I’m forcing anything. Sometimes I feel like I’m...

jvcrys

Xper 2 Age: 22

How Do I Look?

✨6 Thoughtful Questions to Spark Reflection & Deep Conversations✨ ?

1. If your future self could send you one piece of advice right now, what do you think it would be? 2. What’s a belief you once held tightly, but eventually outgrew? 3. Do people change because they truly want...

AvaRay

Xper 6 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Feminism’s Great Divide: Why Shutting Out Men and Labeling Women ‘Pick-Me’ Stalls Progress

Emma Watson’s 2014 UN speech, launching the HeForShe campaign, threw down a gauntlet: “How can we have a thoughtful open discussion when only half the population feels invited to join in the conversation?” Her call to...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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Am I crazy or are these signs? PT 1?

I’ve known my crush for 9 years. We used to be really close but a couple years ago he stopped talking to me because I was coming on to him a little too hard and he didn’t have the same feelings. About a year later he...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

For girls who think guys and girls can definitely be platonic friends? was I harsh on this or did I say this good?

Was this harsh or? . :) I've been thinking lately about how our friendship has been evolving, and I wanted to talk about it. I've been feeling like we're not connecting as well as we used to. i value our friendship,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How long would you wait to reach out to a girl if you aren’t sure about her feelings?

I recently had a meet cute with this guy, whom I met at work. It felt very serendipitous because it came out of nowhere, and how we met felt dated. but we were at work so I was still in the work zone and didn’t really go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do emotionally charged kisses/moments stay with you long long long after? Does she think about us and that night (emotional permanence issue)?

I struggle a lot with emotional permanence — I often fear that once I’m out of someone’s sight, I’m forgotten. Especially when it comes to emotionally charged moments. I’m wondering how women process things like this. Do...

Anton35

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is there some kind of interest here?

I’m not asking romantic but I feel like either she’s interested in a friendship or just intrigued. So there’s this girl who have been trying to court many people have left there comments and opinions most of it...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

If he doesn’t trust me why does he keep reaching out?

I’ve been talking to this guy online for over a year now. I really enjoyed our conversations and there was a really good spark on a s*xual level. He asked my name right away which I found a little odd, later I found out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I discovered his true identity, at first he acted ok with it - why is he friend-zoning me 9 months later?

I got really into this guy on tumblr and we were literally chatting every day for hours. I was getting a really good vibe from him, he was friendly and took his time getting to know me before we started talking about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Whispers of the Heart and the Journey into the Chaos of Love

Falling in love is like stepping into a whirlwind of emotions you never saw coming. It’s that electric spark when your eyes meet, the warmth of their smile that feels like home, and the little moments that make everything...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Does anyone else feel boring (no personality and quiet) with your significant other when the kids are around vs being alone together?

My boyfriend is a single dad with three kids, and I have one. We don't live together but all the kids and us will hang together at his house and do sleepovers. I feel like on date nights alone, I can be myself and be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Why is my coworker giving me so many mixed signals?

I have an older coworker who I really like but I'm not sure how to figure her out. She's pretty shy and awkward, but she can be night and day on me depending on the day. She likes to linger at where I work, taking her...

LandOfConfusion

Xper 1 Age: 25

How to let the guy down easy if the age gap seems like too much?

This guy and I met up at an event and immediately hit it off. Folks started commenting on the sparks flying and there IS a very good chemistry/vibe between us, but then he told me he's 33 and I felt crushed because I'm...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do girls act like they don’t sexualize men?

This question was sparked by two things involving the gym primarily. First was a video I watched of a girl starting her own gym and putting up a sign with the rules and the first rule was no men. Second was a conversation...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Chemistry vs Connection?

Would you rather have mind-blowing chemistry in bed but constantly struggle to connect on a deeper emotional level, leaving conversations and understanding feeling shallow? Or would you prefer having a deep emotional...

Lurix

Xper 4 Age: 26

Would you rather have mind-blowing chemistry in bed but constantly struggle to connect on a deeper emotional level, leaving conversations and understanding feeling shallow? Or would

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Break Up & Divorce

My ex (30M) and I (29F) still argue about the ending of our relationship and what went wrong 2+ years later?

Background information: For anyone wondering why I am still in contact with my ex, it's because we have children together and coparent on a weekly basis. It has been more than 2 years after separation and sometimes,...

Anonymous

(30-35)