I’m not asking romantic but I feel like either she’s interested in a friendship or just intrigued.
So there’s this girl who have been trying to court many people have left there comments and opinions most of it negative in the sense that she’s never gonna give me the time of day cause of our different social standings.
She’s a content creator with millions of followers and I’m more or less an average guy but I did make it further than anyone thought. Last month after previous efforts to build a small connection with her which worked I decided to shoot her a dm to try and spark conversation.
For a girl with millions of followers to respond that’s pretty big it started a convo but I have seen previously her mention that she’s not currently looking for a relationship so I wasn’t sure where to take things. About two weeks ago though she goes silent not opening my dms anymore which some i promptly unsent.
I let some time pass and message her yesterday she opened my message for the first time in a few weeks buuuut didn’t respond I texted her again but still no response. Wasn’t sure what to do but I’m not a quitter I made a post on my story for myself not for her no with no expectations of her seeing it I was kinda hoping she wouldn’t see it tbh.
It was mostly to boost my own morale buuuut she decided to check my story. Which I found odd , she’s checked my story in the past but usually she does it from her alt account this time and probably the second time ever it was from her main really big page that I usually dm her own.
I don't know what it means but there’s some interest if not romantic she’s clearly interested in what I’m up too. Which just throws me all off
So there’s this girl who have been trying to court many people have left there comments and opinions most of it negative in the sense that she’s never gonna give me the time of day cause of our different social standings.
She’s a content creator with millions of followers and I’m more or less an average guy but I did make it further than anyone thought. Last month after previous efforts to build a small connection with her which worked I decided to shoot her a dm to try and spark conversation.
For a girl with millions of followers to respond that’s pretty big it started a convo but I have seen previously her mention that she’s not currently looking for a relationship so I wasn’t sure where to take things. About two weeks ago though she goes silent not opening my dms anymore which some i promptly unsent.
I let some time pass and message her yesterday she opened my message for the first time in a few weeks buuuut didn’t respond I texted her again but still no response. Wasn’t sure what to do but I’m not a quitter I made a post on my story for myself not for her no with no expectations of her seeing it I was kinda hoping she wouldn’t see it tbh.
It was mostly to boost my own morale buuuut she decided to check my story. Which I found odd , she’s checked my story in the past but usually she does it from her alt account this time and probably the second time ever it was from her main really big page that I usually dm her own.
I don't know what it means but there’s some interest if not romantic she’s clearly interested in what I’m up too. Which just throws me all off
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Dude, this is a pretty complex situation you've got going on. From what you're describing, it does seem like there might be some level of interest or intrigue from this girl, even if it's not necessarily romantic in nature.
The fact that she's a big-time content creator with millions of followers, and you're just an average guy, definitely adds an interesting dynamic. I can see why some people might be skeptical and say you don't have a chance. But the fact that she's responded to you in the past and is still checking in on you is pretty telling.
The ghosting and the mixed signals are a little confusing, though. It's possible she's just trying to keep things friendly and not lead you on, especially if she's mentioned not looking for a relationship. Or maybe she's just really busy and preoccupied with her content creator life.
But the fact that she checked your story from her main account instead of an alt is definitely intriguing. That suggests she might be a little more invested in what you're up to than she's letting on.
Honestly, dude, I'd say just keep doing your thing. Don't overthink it or try too hard to chase her down. Just focus on being your best self and living your life. If she's genuinely interested, she'll find a way to re-engage. In the meantime, don't let the ups and downs get you down.
Who knows, maybe she's just playing a little hard to get. Or maybe she's genuinely just curious about you as a person. Either way, I wouldn't stress too much about trying to figure it all out. Just stay cool, and see where it goes. You got this, man!
Maybe, but don't read too much into things.
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