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So this is the same guy from my last post, I’ll just start by saying both of us have a massive ego and a lot of pride esp when it comes to texting first.

He works in a fast food shop where I’m a regular customer at. Anyways recently he started ignoring my texts (he told me he doesn’t make time for people that don’t make time for him as I wasn’t meeting him outside work) so I stopped messaging him, he barely messages me first unless it’s to tell me to sneak out of the shop to meet him for a little while as his boss doesn’t allow us to talk. That’s what’s so confusing he can sound so cold and uninterested but will literally risk his job just to see me for a little bit. Needless to say, we haven’t texted in 3 weeks (and I’ve not gone to his shop during this time either) since I stopped messaging first.

i haven’t met him outside work although he’s asked to see me , due to our schedules not being compatible and every time he asked to see me he was inviting me over to his place but it’s like he never wants to talk over text and doesn’t seem interested (over text) . Thing is though he gets so jealous when other guys hit on me and he always stares at me and when we have phone calls he’s so sweet and different.
I sometimes wonder if he’s trying to use reverse psychology to get with me or just trying to get in my pants. However if it was sex he wanted why would he still be talking to me 6 months later when he hasn’t gotten anything sexual from me and I’ve told him I’m waiting until marriage.

He always asks me to come chill at his place and said he’d cook for me and we could watch a movie or something but I don’t go to his place as I don’t want to get used for sex and I can’t tell if that his intention or not. Thing is he works night shifts and sleeps through the day or when he’s free I have classes so that’s really only the option he has but I still think if a guy really likes you he will make time.

Please be brutally honest so I can save myself the heartbreak.

So this is the same guy from my last post, I’ll just start by saying both of us have a massive ego and a lot of pride esp when it comes to texting first.

He works in a fast food shop where I’m a regular customer at. Anyways recently he started ignoring my texts (he told me he doesn’t make time for people that don’t make time for him as I wasn’t meeting him outside work) so I stopped messaging him, he barely messages me first unless it’s to tell me to sneak out of the shop to meet him for a little while as his boss doesn’t allow us to talk. That’s what’s so confusing he can sound so cold and uninterested but will literally risk his job just to see me for a little bit. Needless to say, we haven’t texted in 3 weeks (and I’ve not gone to his shop during this time either) since I stopped messaging first.

i haven’t met him outside work although he’s asked to see me , due to our schedules not being compatible and every time he asked to see me he was inviting me over to his place but it’s like he never wants to talk over text and doesn’t seem interested (over text) . Thing is though he gets so jealous when other guys hit on me and he always stares at me and when we have phone calls he’s so sweet and different.
I sometimes wonder if he’s trying to use reverse psychology to get with me or just trying to get in my pants. However if it was sex he wanted why would he still be talking to me 6 months later when he hasn’t gotten anything sexual from me and I’ve told him I’m waiting until marriage.

He always asks me to come chill at his place and said he’d cook for me and we could watch a movie or something but I don’t go to his place as I don’t want to get used for sex and I can’t tell if that his intention or not. Thing is he works night shifts and sleeps through the day or when he’s free I have classes so that’s really only the option he has but I still think if a guy really likes you he will make time.

Please be brutally honest so I can save myself the heartbreak.

When I first met him, he was very charming and aggressive with sex. During our relationship, I still saw him chatting other girls but I trusted him when he said they are just friends.

When we stayed together, he is so demanding like I have to pay half for the rent and electricity if not he will get mad at me insulting me with “Irresponsible.” He was also asking me to have a bank loan for him to make business but I was afraid and said no and so He insulted me again with “Useless.” Until, he talk to other girls and I begin to question him again, he said he is looking for an investor in order to make business. He is so desperate to have a business. He once said I found 3 girls and I will use them to loan To make business.

He is a big smoker and sometimes doesn’t care if I am around. He drink alcohol a lot and even cheated behind my back when I am in office he sleeps with other girls at home.

He doesn’t really care about me. He get offended if I don’t grocery or buy him food. But he never ask if I eat after work or if he wants me to get from office. Sometimes he did but only to give money for his fuel and even buy some cigarettes.

Until I become empty like I have nothing to offer to him. He left me for another girl and said I can’t take care of his needs.
how come he did this to me like he is a heartless human?

During our relationship, he makes me believe that he was looking for a long term relationship. We are so quick in a relationship in just 2nd meet and he still talks, meet and sex many girls while we are in a relationship at my back. He then later ask me for money to support his rent, food , bills, buy motorbike. He asked me to clean the dishes and even his house. He asked me to loan for him or even use my name for his business. And most of all he got mad if I rejected his request.