Why does he call me twice a day and how should I let him know it's too much for me?

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My boyfriend calls me twice(morning call and goodnight call) everyday. I really appreciate it a lot. But I'm told that guys don't like talking on phone too much. And he started to call me everyday since he gave me his word that he would call me everyday. Does he keep doing it because he doesn't want to break his word? And besides, I think it's a little bit too much for me. I think one call every other day is better idea. But how can I tell him the truth if he really wants to call me everyday?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think you should be grateful he calls. I normally hear girls complaining about guys not calling when they say they will and so far this is the first guy I've heard who is doing the opposite. This also means he's quite talkative which should be another plus. If you want, you could just let him do what he wants and eventually even he might become stale sooner or later. Your best bet is to jokingly say, "Babe, you don't have to call every day, or twice a day". That should give him the hint to calm down should you want that.

boi818 · Accepted Answer

Do you even like your boyfriend? some would love to have their bf's call them often.. seems to me you don't appreciate things..

But you can just tell him you don't really like talking on the phone much.. and make it so that you're the one calling him...

AdventurousMan · Answer

You want to see that he has something better to do than to think about you and call you all the time.  Communication is important in any relationship, so just tell him that you appreciate him keeping his word, and it's okay not to call all the time.  Sometimes younger guys are learning how to lead things, so give him time.  You could tell him what to do, but then that's no fun.

tyrantfuryre · Answer

So you know that guys don't like to talk on the phone and your boyfriend is in fact calling you and 2 times a day everyday at that..and you're complaining about it? Okay...and you only want him to call you once a day every other day? What else would you like to put in to your schedule and when? Do you understand where I'm going with this? Just go with the flow. What exactly is the big deal anyway? How long does he talk to you on the phone each time?

tyrantfuryre · Answer

See? Exactly. Glad you actually dealt with it and thought it through.

Why does he call me twice a day and how should I let him know it's too much for me?

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