Why is he so happy without me?

[Anonymous]

my ex looks so happy without me. Its as if I never knew him.

Ive seen him on Facebook etc with his new girlfriend and he looks completely happy.

Its hurts so much to think that I made him so unhappy.

He always used to tell me we should have gone out more and now he is with his new girlfriend he seems to be having a wonderful life. I'm still moping around and feel like I've got nothing compared to him.

I was with him for 8 years and split up about 51/2 months ago.

[SaltyBooze]

im sorry you feel that way, but what would you rather have? him feeling horrible and miserable? nah, focus on the important stuff! your happiness is the important stuff now. the page is flipped, new chapter is on. you guys had an amazing 8 year lasting relationship, thats something to be cherished, but now its time to surround yourself by your friends and/or family, and try to unfocusing on the "need" to have him and focus on your wants. dont have prejudice in therapy, if you feel like having it. it helps a lot. in any case, try to have as much human contact as you can, without pushing too hard. just do things that seem like theyre gonna be fun, even if they dont seem that fun on the moment you're thinking about it. keep yourself safe! and hydrated!

[mustang99]

Don't pay ur x any mind, you'll never get over the relationship with that attitude. If he's happy so what! Your life should be all about you and no one else. He may be doing that just to make you feel that way and it looks like its working. Take some time to make yourself feel better about everyting and stop worrying about anything he say's or does cause he's not with you. Do something to make yourself feel happy, hang out with friends or go shopping, if that's what will make you happy. If it helps, stay off Facebook for a while until your ready to deal with it. Remember those pics don't mean a thing, he could be doing that to make you feel bad when really he's not over you.

[Asker]

But he has told me to leave him alone. I can't stop thinking that he has this amazing life and I've got nothing. The thing is he has met some1 and has been out a lot but my mates are all settled down with children and boyfriends and can't get out as much as me. So some weeks I don't go out. I got a brill family mind. I just feel like I'm missing out and he has this wonderful life without me in it.

[mustang99]

All you can worry about is you. You can't worry over something that you can't control, that's one life mistake a lot of people make, I've made that mistake. You can't stop him from going out and having fun, but you can keep yourself from enjoying life by worrying about what's going on in his life. Just go with the flow and if things don't always go as you may have plan, that's cool things don't always work out the best but they work out. Focus on YOU and not him.

[anne24]

Hi. Well. he left me. Not only im falling aparte in a million pieces but he is actually doing much better now without me. We spent everyday together for like 3 almost 4 years. every single day. and he just left. He cut me off completly out of his life and he is happier. He goes out a lot more, he is dating, smiling, etc. And i still can't even eat or get out of bed. When the hell this gets better? Cause i feel like i can't take it anymore. I feel so alone. My friends are all setlle down, his friends aren't . How can i believe in someone else again too? Cause he used to say he will never ever leave me. and now he is even better than ever. I can't take this pain anymore

[NatashaJones]

My name is Natasha Jones from Australia Greetings to everyone that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three (3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer, one day when I was reading through the web, I saw a post on how this spell caster on this address dr. okosodo1@gmail. com have help a woman to get back her husband and I gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 5 days that I will have my husband back. At first I doubt, but later believed him and gave him a trailer, today I am glad to let you all know that this spell caster has the power to bring lovers back. Because I am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr Okosodo.
His email: dr. okosodo1@gmail. com

[krissy82]

I had something similar happen to me. My ex fiance abandoned me during our pregnancy. He said he tried to reconcile things but it didn't work because he felt we didn't communicate. Funny thing is, he refused to communicate with me. Now he's completely happy with someone else. He says anything I do now to try and reconcile things makes me look delusional and only justifies his reasons for leaving me. I was with him for 9 years. After 9 months, I am still not able to get over him. What did you do in 8 months that helped you?

[Asker]

Cried a hell of a lot, talked with my family and friends about it...and little by little felt better.

I honestly don't really know...but what I do know now is that it was for the best.

Time is a great healer...you will get over him and find someone new. Just try and be positive xx

[bigblueeyes1]

hey I know this was posted over a year ago. I hope you still come one here from time to time. this is what I'm going through now. I'd love to know how you feel now. because I feel like I'll never get over it.

[Asker]

Babes, you will get over it. I also thought that it would never happen and it took me about 8 months and finally I met someone else and I'm so happy with him. I actually now realize that me and my ex were never meant to be and I'm actually now glad it happened...he was so wrong for me. I wish him and his girlfriend all the luck in the world...because honestly she needs it...he's a total loser xx You'll be fine...be positive and stay strong...message me whenever you want...i'll try and help you

[Cheergirl0612]

Can you please help me because I’m in the same situation

[henryoneal]

i want to testify to the general public how my relationship was restored back by the great power's of Dr UZOYA after 3 year of loneliness, my ex wife called me after my contact with Dr UZOYA caster spell that brought my ex wife back and start a good home, now we are happily married. All thanks to Dr UZOYA for his wonderful spiritual help. With this testimony right now i am the happiest man on earth and our love is now stronger than how it was even before. I will keep sharing this testimony all over the world. All thanks goes to Dr. UZOYA for the good work that he has done for me and people he has helped. Believe him and do all he ask you to do and never doubt him in any way. his email; driraborspellcaster@gmail. com his Mobil number is [phone]

[cookiemonster123]

Hello, OK well I read your situation and I honestly need your help! My ex dumped me 5 months ago because things got boring and he got a girlfriend 2 week's later which hurt A LOT. They are still together now and every time I see them they are always laughing and smiling and having fun. I don't understand how he can be so happy after leaving me in the dirt. Could you please help me?

[Asker]

Sometimes when you've been together for a long time you get stuck in a rut hun and things can become boring and the 'same old'. Just remember this is not just down to you! x he obviously thinks the grass is greener...believe me though it will all change for him in time. he's being a typical man. You've got to go out and try and enjoy yourself. I know it hurts babe I've been there but I can assure you he's really not worth it. I've now realized it was for the best...you will too xxx

[ReasonCalm]

Don't watch him. But question why he is having a good time. Maybe he wasent feeling the same.

[Anonymous]

My ex dnt care abu me bt i still love him i care for him i want him back but he is ignoring me yaar what should i do?

[NatashaJones]

My name is Natasha Jones from Australia Greetings to everyone that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three (3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer, one day when I was reading through the web, I saw a post on how this spell caster on this address dr. okosodo1@gmail. com have help a woman to get back her husband and I gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 5 days that I will have my husband back. At first I doubt, but later believed him and gave him a trailer, today I am glad to let you all know that this spell caster has the power to bring lovers back. Because I am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr Okosodo.
His email: dr. okosodo1@gmail. com

[kelis]

Sometimes think never find love