My boyfriend won't let me pee!!

[Anonymous]

Whenever I'm with my boyfriend and have to pee he refuses to let me go unless its in my house because he can't stop me. The thing is I love him so I don't want to break up with him but what should I do?

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please help!

[CaptainFrost]

wtf

this is such a stupid thing

girls have to pee,... a lot

if he can't understand that basic thing about being with a girl then perhaps he should do some reading. Not only that but if he's trying to control you on a petty bodily function, imagine what what he may do later in the relationship if you keep giving in like this.

Tell him, when you gotta go you gotta go, and ask him if he wants to be broken up with for such a stupid reason. if he still doesn't care, then that's an indicator that this guy has the mental age of a 5 year old monkey, but I think even they would let thier girlfriend pee

[Anonymous]

Umm... what? Maybe it's just me, but this sounds ever so slightly insane. It might be some kind of psychological or nervous tic, like some people are always washing their hands, that makes him do this. If you love him enough that you don't want to break up with him, then maybe try and talk to him about it as that's definitely an 'issue'.

[Da-One-n-Only-]

Wow talk about insecure and not letting you go pee in public place.

If you gotta go,u gotta go..That's kind of a controlling issue he has going on there.

Talk to him tell him ur ganna go where you wanna and if he doesn't like it he can step.

If you let him do that now,what's going to happen tomarrow.You won't be able to wear

those pants and that shirt?

It's bad for you to hold ur pee 2, so talk to him and see what happens.

[Anonymous]

I really hope this is a joke question. If it's not, I'd like to reach my hand through my computer screen and slap some sense into you for even being with a guy like this. LOVE YOURSELF fck that guy.

[Leaveitatthedoor]

Extremely ignorant thing to say. My ex wouldn't let me use the bathroom at night because he was an abusive POS who thought I was just going to pretend to go to the bathroom but actually sneak up to his roommates room to sleep with him. Sometimes he would let me go but only in the drain in the basement where he could watch me (his room was in the basement). I developed horrible UTIs that caused extreme bleeding and pain. And now I have reoccurring UTIs for the rest of me life (and was recently told that I need a biopsy down there due to precancerous cells forming due to the reoccuring UTIs) because this paranoid scizophrenic POS wouldn't let me out of his sight to go pee.

Someone who does this is likely an abusive/controlling partner and unless you've been in that situation, telling someone their a stupid idiot for not leaving is a lot easier said than done and is actually victim blaming. I'd like to reach my hand through my phone screen and slap this ignorant as comment out of your mouth.

[latinabeautyy13]

i agree with the previous comment. Piss yourself. then hell regret it. dumb f***. who doesn't let someone go pee wtf? weird

[Leaveitatthedoor]

People who are abusive, possessive and controlling, that's who.

[Anonymous]

Just p*ss yourself. After about a year of him having to walk around with you in public with a wet spot, he'll get the hint. Worked for me. Than she made me wear a diaper & they get expensive because I wouldn't wear nothing but pampers. Couldn't wear no-name so it got expensive.

[Elcristoph]

errr... I have no idea what to make of this... have you asked him why..

Ill be honest that's just creepy

[Camilus]

Insert a Foley catheter before going over his house

[blah52]

Why won't he let you pee, this doesn't make any sense.

[anonymousforever]

If he won't let you pee in his bathroom then pee on his floor and let him clean it up.

[Friend10]

Hey urr man is weird. May be he has some mis-conception or he feels un-safe for XYZ reasons. Talking to him only can find the answer. Also, if you stop urr pee for a long time, you may get stones.