My boyfriend had to pee?

[Anonymous]

We were on a long car journey he had to pee really bad. We were gonna stop at the next service station it was still quite far away but he said he could hold it. We were about 5 miles off when we hit a traffic jam. He was really desperate by then but we couldn't stop about 10 mins later he wet him self. This was a week ago. He has been ignoring me since what should I do?

[NothingLastsForever]

He's obviously highly embarrassed.

Call him and tell him that so what that he wet himself? he should know you better then to judge you and think that your going to care. It wasn't his fault and it doesn't change anything..

Basically let him feel secure and that it won't be mentioned again if that's how he wants to go about it.. Say to him its just a funny memory from a long time ago.

Bless him, that is kinda funny though!

Turn the situation around, you wet yourself..

You were ignoring him. What would you want him to do?

[selfishstars]

I agree, he's probably afraid to talk to you because he feels so embarrassed. Just keep being your friendly self, try talking to him, etc. as if there's nothing wrong. I wouldn't suggest bringing up the topic unless he does, because it will probably make him more embarrassed. If he brings it up, just tell him it's not a big deal.

[airiver]

I can imagine that that was an extremely embarrassing situation for him...Just give him a hug and tell him no worries and let's not discuss this again...what else can you do...eventually he will need to get over it but what an ego blow that must be...be gentle and it you're smart you will never say a word to anyone...

[Anonymous]

Well just have some fun with him, maybe buy him some nappies I don't know how hard is it to use a bottle or a cup, bag, geez... that would mess up a realtionship or you can tell him its ok and maybe relate how you wet yourself... etc these things happen, if you can work throught it, communicate, it can make your relationship stronger...or it could be over...

[Delahatesyou]

You could always wet yourself in front of him, but it'd be easier to just find a guy that doesn't pee his pants like a two year old. Good god use a bottle, or go on the side of the road.

[heartsmile]

Find a way to talk to him. I don't think I'd even bring the incident up. He's probably really embarrassed dso doesn't know what to do. But if you're not trying to approach him either he might think you're disgusted with him or something.

[Anonymous]

hahahahahaha...hilerious...i bet you found it a bit cute...

[alex44]

Call him talk to him he might think you are disgusted with him or something. And he will be embarrassed