Boyfriend made me pee myself?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday while I was watching my favorite TV show on the couch, my boyfriend walked into the room and started massaging my shoulders. I was positioned between his legs and his arms were wrapped around my torso. He slowly shifted from massaging me to softly tickling me and I was laughing super hard. I could feel myself getting breathless and I was shrieking so much trying to get him to stop but he thought it was super entertaining and so continued doing it. Before he started tickling me I really had to pee & he struck at the worst moment. I was like "Stop it! I have to pee!" and he was like "You're saying that just to get me to stop tickling you ahaha." I was like "Seriously! I'm about to pee myself! Get off!" I tried pushing him off but he's stronger and I wasn't able to get up fast enough. Before I knew it my insane laughter caused me to literally pee myself. I was SO embarrassed when I got up and he saw it & I was like "I told you! You're such an asshole. Now I have to change my clothes!" He was like "Tara, I'm sorry. I honestly didn't think it was that much of an emergency." He does seem apologetic but he couldn't stop laughing at me. He was trying to keep it to himself but he broke out laughing at least once or twice and I was super annoyed at him. Why does he think it's funny? I was so mortified!! What do I do now? I'm so embarrassed. Am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

He probably laughed in the moment. If we see our best friends trip over do we not laugh for the first second then suddenly consider if they are actually hurt? It happens to everyone. Doesn't matter if you are 60. Tickling just means you can't keep control of your body. It's just a funny thing imagine if you saw him do it? You'd probably laugh so much but also feel bad for him. He won't think anything of you for it. Honestly if you are a couple there is gonna be weirder than that one day. If you let little things like this become a problem then you might start arguing a lot. Just relax you're fine. If you want prank him back ;)

[Asker]

You're correct lol :) if the roles were reversed I would have laughed at him too aha :P it's just embarrassing but I hope that feeling wears off soon because I've been avoiding him just a little since the peeing happened lol

[drthommy]

i can imagine that you feel embarrassed but if you are both in a serious relationship nothing will change maybe you will even feel closer to each other after couple weeks since it's really private (sounds strange but who knows). Just try to act normal like it wasn't a big deal and nothing really happened.
it's only as big and embarrising as you make it!
good luck to you

[Asker]

Aww thanks for saying that :) It helped! He doesn't think it's a big deal and just found it super funny lol. I, on the other hand, always like being "put together" and that was the worst thing that could have happened! Lol

[shreya_shiry]

hahahahhaa that was funny. but I don't know why I am finding it cute. Don't overreact on it. it was just fun moment. don't be embarrassed maybe someday you both will remember it n laugh together.

[Asker]

I just want him to forget it ever happened! Lol :) He was trying so hard not to laugh but I think it was funny to him that he caused me to pee my pants! I could have murdered him honestly lol

[shreya_shiry]

mark my word. it will be your topic for lifetime. your excuse to hit him with mock anger

[Asker]

I always joke around with him saying he doesn't have a good sense of humor and now he's like "And you say I'm not funny. Pssshhhh. I made you piss yourself laughing ahaha." That earned him a pillow in the face lol ;)

[shreya_shiry]

lol he deserves thats

[carlos06]

I understand that you felt embarassed, but if he was just tickling you and even after you peed he was laughing, I feel that we was laughing at the situation and not of you, and I feel that he didn't have any bad intentions, in fact he probably likes you a lot because he simply laugh after you peed in front of him.

Tell him that he needs to know when to stop, but don't be mad with him, he didn't mean to make you feel bad

[Asker]

Liked your answer :) Thanks! Honestly I think I'm just very hard on myself and because I like him so much I try to be perfect for him so that situation was a nightmare for me lol :)

[carlos06]

Don't worry, if he didn't run away is because he likes you enough. You're fine (:

[Asker]

I hope he likes me still lol :) We've been dating for 2 years aha

[guy42069]

I mean, I assume you've had sex with him so there's much worse stuff than pee thats come out of you guys so its probably fine. It will make for a good laugh in the future but maybe set some stricter boundaries as far as tickle fights go so this doesn't happen again.

[Asker]

Yes we do have sex but I honestly haven't embarrassed myself in front of him before so this was so mortifying! Lol :) How would you react if that happened to your girl or even a friend? :(

[guy42069]

Id feel bad but I would not at all blame her and try not to make her feel embarassed. Id try to make sure it never happened again too! Also Id probably not get into that situation in the first place hopefully! I definitely get that its inherently embarassing, much more sofor you, but Im sure he feels embarassed as well. But try not to make too big of a deal about it and it'll blow over, be less embarassing for you, and be a positive memory for you guys in the future. If you blow up about it, it'll just be a needless rough patch in my opinion. Good luck!

[guy42069]

Also I think its necessary to embarass yourselves in front of each other in a relationship, you guys need to experience all facets of each other, embarassment included. What you guys do is an important learning experience ya know?

[Asker]

You have a point :) it's important for couples to go through embarrassing moments together lol but peeing your pants is normally something associated with being a toddler lol :P

[Psychlopic]

While I get your annoyance and embarrassment, it was an accident, and while I'm sure he is truly sorry, it's also very funny. If this happened just between you two, I don't think you should stay that angry. Hopefully you'll set the humor in the situation soon. If you switched your situations, and he peed himself, I think you would find it hilarious too.

Though again, I can see why you were initially embarrassed and annoyed. Probably anyone would.

[Asker]

It happened between the two us only lol and it better remain a secret lol :) If he tells anyone I swear I'll strangle him :P

[Psychlopic]

That's a completely rational reaction :-D

[Asker]

Fine I won't strangle him lol but I'll staple his mouth shut lol ;)

[Cody01]

You need reflexes like me. If someone were to tickle me their chance of me punching, head butting, kicking them is nearly guaranteed because I just have no control of what I'm doing. I get that sudden rush of autistic strength.

[Asker]

I don't know how to defend myself when I'm being tickled! Lol :) I literally become a helpless heap and just beg for them to stop as I squirm around trying to escape aha :)

[TeddyEddy]

As someone who loves tickle fights, I can understand why he didn't stop :P And as for the laughing situation, it's good to be able to laugh and have fun with everything, no matter how embarrassing it might have felt :)

[Asker]

We normally get into a lot of tickle fights but I've never had that happen before! I was embarrassed but he told me it wasn't a big deal lol :)

[TeddyEddy]

He sounds like someone who creates a healthy environment. It's great laughing about the bad things :)

[Anonymous]

I can see why you're mortified. But it's really cute when a girl is being tickled, and honestly it's even more so if she pees herself because you think of it as submission. To an extent you need to respect that she might be hurt by you seeing that, but if it was the right timing (and she wasn't wearing valuable clothes) I would tell her "I'm gonna tickle you until you pee" and then do so

[Asker]

My boyfriend told me the same thing that he found it really cute lol :) I guess I see what you mean but I'm a bit of a control freak so that was a nightmare situation for me lol :)

[Opinion Owner]

Do you like to be dominant? That's not a bad thing, I just picture girls who like being submissive would be a bit more used to stuff like that, not that you need to be used to it

[Asker]

Not necessarily dominant lol but I don't always feel comfortable with someone having the upper hand. Like when he's tickling me and I Iiterally have to beg him to stop or in this case when I peed myself, I just feel out of control. Not sure if that makes sense aha :)

[Opinion Owner]

I think I get it, it's just hard when you feel kind of like you have no control over what's going on. Or also just you don't like being tickled :)

[Asker]

Exactly! Well I used to think I liked being tickled but after this i think I'm traumatized aha :)

[Opinion Owner]

Ah so you need to have some normal tickle sessions without the peeing so that you can get used to the pleasure of it again. Then you'll forget about the trauma :)

I was kind of disappointed, I was gonna start tickling my girlfriend (well, first seeing if she's ticklish) but then we broke up before I had the chance to try. It was a very smooth breakup and we're still cool with each other, but I never had the experience of getting her to laugh and move around from being tickled... it would've been so cute :)

[Asker]

Aww I'm sorry you missed out on experiencing that :) I think I enjoy being tickled by my boyfriend because it bonds us together and gives us a reason to laugh but there definitely should be a safety word when I'm being serious about stopping! Lol :P That would be enough for me to feel comfortable with being tickled again because it gives me a small bit of control lol :)

[Opinion Owner]

That's a good idea, you'll enjoy it again and he'll get to enjoy the ability to make you go crazy laughing and moving around 😉

[Robsinsf53]

You're totally overreacting. I see he apologized and if he would have known you was serious, if he's smart, he would have stopped.

[Asker]

He should have stopped regardless lol :) Tickling is the worst when your actually super ticklish!! Aha

[Asker]

You're******

[Robsinsf53]

I'll bet he ain't tickling you no more or if he is, he'd better listen, lol.😂

[Robsinsf53]

One more thing, you need not be embarrassed. If he's a good dude and appreciates you, he isn't ever going to bring it up again. That would be my next move.

[Asker]

He already brought it up once lol and he was like "As long as you don't shit yourself it's all good ahaha." I wanted to kill him after that lol :P It seems that after the peeing incident he wants to tickle me more to get it to happen again aha which it won't

[Robsinsf53]

Now if the woman shits herself, you or any other, that's a horse of a different color! I don't know any woman that would laugh at that & actually the women I know would kick their boyfriends out. Probably husbands too.😂😂😂

[Asker]

Well luckily I've never shit myself in front of him lol :P That would be 10x more embarrassing unless I was giving birth to our future child in which case it would be somewhat acceptable aha :)

[Robsinsf53]

Totally acceptable if giving birth. There's just about nothing worse, you have the flu at work and I was sick as ****. I was a foreman and out on the floor with my crew when I thought I had to fart, butt (pun) my ass had other ideas. Good thing I had plenty of shower, dressing rooms and change of clothes. Terrible, the worst. Know if I'm ever sick, I stay home.

[Asker]

Lol :) Thanks for sharing. Even though it's quite embarrassing we're all just humans and sometimes these things can't be helped aha :) Although I've never burped or farted in front of the boyfriend, he jokes around saying he'll catch me doing it someday lol :P I hope not! By far the most embarrassing thing I've ever done in front of him lol

[Robsinsf53]

I heard my then wife race into the bathroom and she didn't have time to close the bathroom door. It was gross hearing it, she apologized and I'm telling you what I told her, she didn't have to apologize because **it happens.(pun) We both were sick with the flu.😷🤒🤕

[InfoBot]

I hope you ruined the couch too. It's not as funny otherwise.

[Asker]

No, the couch was still in perfect condition lol ;)

[InfoBot]

Aww, that sucks. Get your boyfriend to do it again and this time DO IT PROPERLY :P

[Asker]

I swear I'm never gonna let him tickle me again lol :P I wish I had peed on him instead. That would have made his laughter end super fast aha ;) What an asshole he is

[InfoBot]

lmao, yes, just pee on his favourite clothes, he might not bother doing it again.

[Asker]

He made me ruin one of my favorite pairs of pants lol so he deserves something! lol :P

[InfoBot]

I almost feel sorry for the guy now. I hope he makes you pee yourself again, you clearly deserve it :P

[Asker]

Hey, you're supposed to be on my side & feel sorry for me lol :P :)

[InfoBot]

I did but it's gone the other way now, I sense your evil soul. You need to be in constant bladder torture, sorry.

[Asker]

Don't call me evil :(

[InfoBot]

You know you are though ;)

[Asker]

No I'm not lol :) I wouldn't actually do that lol but he embarrassed me so bad so that makes him the evil one lol ;)

[InfoBot]

You just can't control your bladder, pissy pants ^_^

#roflwaffle

[Asker]

I honestly couldn't help it! Touche my friend lol :P

[InfoBot]

lmao, you do make me laugh though so I am forced to not hate you :P

[Asker]

Why thank you kind sir lol :)

[Vanjasper]

It's his fault so nothing to feel embarrassed, or mortified about. That said you are overreacting a bit.

[Asker]

I know but I was so embarrassed and I didn't even know how to react! lol :)

[Vanjasper]

At the moment it happened i can see how it would. Peeing yourself in front of your SO for any reason is nothing to rejoice about. But this was all in the context of fun and games, it is his fault, he didn't listen, now it's something you both should be able to laugh about. Unless he lets it slip in front of people. Then you smack him one :-)

[Asker]

Thanks for your advice :) oh I never even considered that he might tell someone :( He honestly better not! I would probably never leave the house and become a hermit aha :P

[Anonymous]

I don't think it was that bad. it seems like an awkward bonding moment. it it generally a funny situation. more funny if he got some because then you both would be on the spot l.

[Asker]

I think I overreacted just a tad lol but it's because I felt so out of control from all that laughing he put me through! Lol :)

[feng_xian]

I would laugh as well, and feel sorry. And no it doesn't matter, so it ok woman

[Asker]

Why would that make you laugh? Lol :) the girl would probably wanna hide in embarrassment like me! Lol

[Anonymous]

https://i.imgur.com/P5TeuEh.gif

[Asker]

Don't make fun lol :)

[Opinion Owner]

That's one of the funniest things I've heard. Just make sure your boyfriend doesn't ever see the Scary movie 2 pee scene haha. One thing that did come to mind was this... are you sure he didn't want you to end up like that? With everything, I see it from many different angles...

[Asker]

I honestly don't know if he meant for that to happen lol but I do know he found it hilarious which just made me more annoyed at the time lol :P I was so pissed off (no pun intended) and he was laughing merrily

[Girlie15]

Yes, you're overreacting. It's not that serious, just pee.

[Asker]

I couldn't look at him for a long time after that cause I was so embarrassed

[anandt35]

yes dear don't judge quickly.
this incident remains between you then its fine but it goes out then u should react.
by the way tell him not to laugh at this kind of situation 😀

[Asker]

I really hope he keeps this embarrassing situation to himself lol :P I seriously think I would be forced to kill him if this story got out lol :)

[TallAnon]

Hahaha, sounds pretty hilarious. Don't feel bad, it'll just be a fun memory later.

[Asker]

After reading a lot of the comments I'm starting to see the humor lol :) Thanks :)

[luckyyirish]

At least he's comfortable enough with you laugh instead of be grossed out lol

[Asker]

We've been dating for 2 years but still it's embarrassing lol ;)

[Wurdom]

That's funny, you're definitely over reacting.

[Asker]

Explain the funny part lol :) I must be blinded by my embarrassment :P

[Wurdom]

I can totally see why you were embarrassed, but hey that's your boyfriend and I'm sure he loves you. He wouldn't judge you for something like that.

I thought that scenario was funny. Just a tickle fight gone wrong :)

[Asker]

Gone very wrong lol :) I feel a bit guilty though cause I cursed at him a little when it first happened but my anger seemed to amuse him more ahaha :P

[Uncut]

What does this storey turn me on so much

[Asker]

What? Lol :) There's nothing attractive about this image! I was a peeing mess & he died laughing

[DylanDimock765432]

insensitive boyfriend you got there

[Asker]

I don't think he did it on purpose but gosh it was embarrassing!

[DylanDimock765432]

I would never prevent someone from going to the bathroom when I was younger kids used to tickle me and I'd pass out find myself in the office first aid room

[Asker]

I'm sorry that happened to you :( I guess we're easy targets cause we're so ticklish and it sucks sometimes

[DylanDimock765432]

thanks you seem really nice tickle tickle hehehe

[Jondozer]

That's awesome

[Asker]

How is that awesome? Aha :) I literally was so embarrassed!

[Jondozer]

he didn't mean too it was accident laugh about it