How should I act when boyfriend peed on my clothes?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend had a couple hours of sleep on Thursday night. We both went to a concert. I got an hour more sleep then him. We both went to work on the Friday. Friday night he had about 6 drinks, woke up in the middle of the night walked over to his dresser put on boxers and then went to my dresser and peed all over my clothes. I yelled at him to stop what he was doing... guess he was alittle out of it. He was embarrassed the next morning and blamed the booze. 2 days later he buys more and doesn't understand why I am upset... still fresh in my mind. Not to say he won't ever drink but a little soon for my comfort. (We just moved in and have 3 kids between us-so grown ass adults). Am I wrong to be upset?

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+1 y

His reasoning is that he isn't get drunk tonight. He "only wants 2 beers".

[CountessSarah]

You should have rubbed his nose it in immediately so he knew not to do it again.

No, I think you're absolutely right to be upset that he immediately goes back to drinking.

Maybe if he has significantly cut back, like, nowhere near being drunk to the point of being totally incoherent/inhibited, I think getting angry would be too much - the argument is over, he's learned, fair enough.

Pissing in dressers aside, however, perhaps a father of 3 shouldn't be getting drunk twice in one week.

[Humbledman74006]

I love that you said run his nose in it. got a visual... hahahaha

[Megalyssa]

That was pee marking. Like animals mak what's theirs.

[Megalyssa]

Pee on his shit

[Dale1982]

Nah your lucky it was just your clothes. My mate wandered in and pissed all over his girlfriend dads head. My other mates dad pissed all over him and his brother one night steaming drunk. I've pissed all over my ex-fiancee and tried to sneak the sheets out without waking her. I pissed all over my pals new carpet and curtains one night too. It's happens to the best of us

[SadDude37]

I had a friend who was so tanked he pissed on the TV. Alcohol can and does make people do stupid things

[reptocarl]

No I'd be pissed (no pun intended) That's extremely inappropriate

[reptocarl]

He's an alcoholic. You cannot have a relationship with one. Their first love isn't you or his kids it's his next drink

[reptocarl]

It will only get worse so you have a decision

[hellokitty96_18]

Ummm dump him. That's really disrespectful

[Josh12954]

No, I would also be upset haha

[hellacray]

2 should be fine. That is pretty random tho.

[Asker]

He has been telling me for a while he doesn't like drinking all the time and wants to cut back. Drinking is normal for him/family.

[hellacray]

Alright well that's good. Let's hope he doesn't pee on your clothes anymore.

[Jojoooooo]

no, you're right