What does it mean when my ex hides from me every time I see her?

[NavajoJoe]

You see it all started when I was in college. I started seeing here from time to time. I never had any problems seeing her. I would travel greater lengths just to see her. I accepted her to be in a relationship with and not only that she has a son as well. Now I did accepted him into my life as well. I have known her for five months. Than one day I tried calling her and texting her. After a day of calling and texting I received a message from her on my MySpace page telling me that her sisters don't like what she was doing so she had to stop what we had in between us. The love, the happiness, the dinners and etc. So what is wrong here. Did I do something wrong? I just wanted to be with her... I know I loved her. But what did I do wrong.

[rdr005]

I think you should just take time to send her a heartfelt message. Let her know that you care for her and her child. Let her know that you wish she'd stand up for herself and not be scared of what her sisters are dating, you weren't dating her sisters, you were dating her. Tell her that you care and that you would never mean harm. Offer her a chance to prove it to her. Then let her know that you miss her friendship and respect her, so if this is ultimately how she feels, then you'll do what you can to try to move on, as well as let her move on, but that you're wishing she will reconsider... moreover... if there's more to it than just her sisters, you would appreciate the honesty. Then apologize with "I'm sorry if I did anything wrong, I thought I was doing things right (or something like that)." But whatever you do, just remain honest. And leave it at that. Be prepared basically for the worst. She may just say sorry, she may take you back, but don't be angry, and understand her situation and move on if she deny's you the chance.

[NavajoJoe]

Now why didn't I think of that... thank you.

[rdr005]

lol, its OK. Sometimes we get so caught up in emotion that common sense is like... "say wut?" haha. Good luck to you.

[DeidreK]

You didn't do anything wrong. She's trying to avoid you, probably because of the fact that her sisters may not want you guys to date. She's scared of what they may think of her, considering she does have a child.