Girl says she forgets to text back or has lost her phone?

[Anonymous]

Ok I've known this girl for about 4 years and I was always there for her during all the times she got into fights with her boyfriends, so when she would finally break up with them we would hang out more she said she was starting to fall in love with me etc. Well she went back to her boyfriend twice pretty much playing me multiple times, well recently we started talking again for the last two months after her and her boyfriend broke up we kissed, we mingle etc, and she has always said that she was attracted to me, well she has this guy friend that she says she has not interest in him and is just hanging out. But I've heard it before from her and she ends up dating him and playing me, well for the last week she really hasn't been in with any conversations, she has told that she lost her phone one day, another day she forgot her phone at home, and now she's saying that she reads my texts but completely forgets about them. I don't know if I should follow threw with her or not or if she is liking this other guy and blowing me off again and ignoring my texts?

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thanks for the comments, ya I don't know what to do with her anymore and she has always said she wants to take things slow if we would get together and she could see herself with me but lately she's being blowing me off

[dontaskwhy]

I don't wanna sugar coat anything, I don't wanna be rude. This girl sounds like she is using you as a rebound every time she leaves a relationship. Trust me, a couple of years ago I learned what being a reboundnwas after I became one for a guy. The reason why I say this is because it seems like she connects with you once she's done with a guy, then runs back to the guy and keeps you waiting until all things fail in her relationship.

It could be multiple things, honestly sometimes when I have a lot of my mind I'll read a message that someone sent me, but I won't have the time of the day to bother messaging back. She could also be making excuses. You have no idea. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I think she's just using you. She gives too many excuses and if she were really into you, she'd be with you and not the other guys she keeps seeing.

[Jpartist]

Sounds like a bad friend to me. Move on man, spend your time on something that's actually worth it.

[cranberry]

I read texts and completely forget about them on guys that I don't really care about. But when I like a guy? Oh boy. I sure pay attention to those texts.

You know what to do... Time to say, adios.