Had sex with my ex, how to handle the situation now?

[magnifique]

I was dating a guy for about 2 months (he was in love with me for months before that), it was the most beautiful time, he was away for Christmas for almost 3 weeks, he broke up a week after he came back (he is a workaholic and was doing master applications which mean a lot to him on the said) and said that his feelings have changed.
i said "you can't force someone to have feelings" and did not beg or anything, did not contact him for a month. on Monday we saw each other at work and he texted me and asked if i want to have a drink on the weekend, i said yes. on Wednesday he texted me to go jogging with him but we had sex. we did not talk a lot, he just said he was an asshole and he broke up because his energy was going somewhere else... so now it's Saturday, he did not text so i asked him about the drinks and he just said "i can't now, sorry", he declined the call and wrote "let's talk tomorrow". i was ready to give it another try, how should i react to that?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You are actually being subbmisive, he ain't loving you you are just a fuck buddy to him so if you are enjoying only sex and don't want any relation then enjoy, but for relationship he is not the guy you wanna be with for rest of your life. If you still tried you will require therapist in future be confident and let this one go

[chriscdi]

well its probably something important, if y'all talk tomorrow and he rejects whatever plans for tomorrow too then congrats you just gave that workaholic some free pussy

[magnifique]

do you think if i text him "i deserve to be treated better, instead of being friends with benefits i prefer finding someone new" it is too dramatic or it makes him clear that i won't stick around for sex?

[chriscdi]

if you just disappear with no words and look for someone new, he should get the hint, even tho we do want him to feel like shit for treating you like this, telling him anything would be wasting your time, you dont wanna do that now, i think you should just look for someone new and if he texts you just ignore him or just kill the conversations with him with those cold one word responses, he should know that he fucked up, if he doesn't figure out how then he will just keep doing it, you are too mature to be telling this guy how to use his life, if he wants to get free pussy and work his ass off then he should do what he wants but he shouldn't expect for you to wait around for him, you dont gotta explain yourself to him, just find someone new

[nowaytosay]

Do not have sex with him again.
He has no reason to want you back, if you just have sex with him.

Don't chase him.
He needs to chase you.
If he wants to see you, he will contact you.

Otherwise continue on with no contact

[PrimalInstinct]

Get some self-respect girl. It's one thing to go back to an ex if dating for years (or even married for years) & there's a long-developed rapport/connection but you two hadn't even made 6 months.

This was just a simple bootie call.

[spartan55]

He's telling you what you want to hear so he can fuck you. Which is working.

[Laozi]

Slap yourself. You don't go back to your ex. They're an ex for a reason. Let them be your past. Just move on and don't look back.

[Gedaria]

You said it , he's a workaholic, this love takes over. Been there it didn't do my first marriage a world of good. Just give him a chance...

[JennieF]

I'd just thank him and move on. I've been in a situation like yours.

[DiscomfortZone]

Lmao. You're so easy it's hilarious.

[yucychan]

As much as bad as it sounds. I do agree with DiscomfortZone. You make it so easy for the guy till the whole relationship is so pathetic. Dont you think you deserve better?

[DiscomfortZone]

Lol, and you say my comment sounded bad? :)

[Mr_mayhem]

The big black cock is hard for you to resist huh?

[mynkMumbai]

Jst make him jealous... he will come back...