Why is my ex being so shady?

[Anonymous]

I was in almost 2 years of relationship..he dumped me without a reason ..and I m added onto his aim yahoo MSN messengers as friends ..its been 6 months since the break up we Haven't talked ever! suddenly I cannot see his profiles or anything..like his stuff is really private but I am still added to his friends list...why doesn't he deletes me ? why is he being so shady making everything of his so private all of sudden? is he trying to play mind games? or is he with someone new now? if he is going out with someone why doesn't he just deletes me?

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he private his information on yahoo , MSN and this one site like 2 weeks ago..but before everything was viewing the status updates , pictures , info everything and now he private them all!

[rdr005]

He's probably moving on. Perhaps he broke up with you for someone else, or perhaps he just doesn't care to have his life public anymore. I can only make assumptions... but I highly suggest you don't base anything off of assumptions and such. My advise would be to just move on... simply because it is not worth you dragging yourself down because of him. 6 months after a break up and you're still trying to figure things out... you're wasting too much of your valuable time and energy on something that won't matter. I say that because even if you knew why he was shady, or why he broke up with you... it won't change the fact that you're no longer together. So take whatever you can from this relationship and move on in hoping that the next will be better. Sorry for the trouble with your ex and the confusion... but its best if you just learned to ignore it, not let it get to you, and carry on with life.

[Asker]

but I don't know why all of sudden? like a week ago I could see his profile and everything and suddenly like a week ago he made everything private...it went from public to private...

[rdr005]

As I stated you're wasting time and I can only make assumptions (which I won't do). Why don't you ask him? But in all honesty you're just holding yourself back. Furthermore... You don't need to know everthing, at this point it's his business. Just move on Hun, or ask him.

[bobbyjean]

if he made everything private, then I would say he has blocked you. it can be any number of reasons why, if you want to know just ask him (or attempt to) and see what happens but I would just forget him you don't need him to be the person you are.

[Asker]

no he didn't block me ...he jus private his stuff from being public...