Wow, what a mess. It's funny because I know just what you are going through. I had a boyfriend, but he went through 4 other women with me as his mistress before he settled down with me. Of course our circumstances were different than yours, but you'll get no judgements from me.
You need to free yourself from this whole mess. Let him go, his girlfriend go - and move on to better things. You know know he is capable of cheating and lying. You know that he's not man enough to go with his heart for whatever reason. He sounds weak and all he is doing is hurting you. Do you think you will ever trust him if he was with you? We all make mistakes, and the smartest thing to do is learn from them.
As for telling his girlfriend about you guys - why is that your responsibility? He's the one who is in the wrong more than you, he betrayed his girlfriend. I understand that you are doing this to force his hand, but it will only lead to a bigger mess. Cut your losses now and walk away. The sooner you end it the sooner you can begin to heal.
Good luck.
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