Is it normal to be jealous of your boyfriend's ex?

[cheyenne1109]

my boyfriend is a skater/guitar player. he dated his ex twice, the longest they were together was 4 months. she isn't that pretty, but she is popular, a cheerleader and has huge boobs. she's average height and weight, has short dark brown hair. I'm kinda an outcast, skater girl. I have really long brown/blonde hair, freckles blue eyes, and I have really long legs and I'm skinny. but I'm practically flat chested and I'm not popular. I've dated him for 7 months. I feel so jealous every time I see her. she has a big but and huge boobs, and I'm like a stick with a butt haha. is it normal to feel jealous of your boyfriends ex? and do boobs really matter?( I'm like an A cup)

[Anonymous]

Its normal for many people but not necessarily healthy. And what exactly does it mean when you ask if boobs matter? Will it stop him from dating you? Clearly not. Does he have a preference for breasts bigger than yours? Maybe so. Many of us have preferences that our bfs or gfs don't have. He might Like different sizes though. Even if he does prefer big boobs he's probably not going to tell you though. Don't worry about it.

Being insecure over an ex is a mindf***. Just stop It. One of My friends that has a more boyish shape had the same problem with her boyfriend and his ex. It was kind of awkward because I'm curvy with wide hips a butt and big boobs and she was kind of trashing the girl and insulting her body. I just let her rant to be supportive but her insecurity was really not attractive.

[MzNatalie]

Why would you be jealous? It sounds like you still have some insecurity issues you need to address or it's going to affect all your future relationships to come. Plus, one day High School ends and you'll realize how insignificant all that teenage drama really was. It happens to virtually everyone and I'm sure it will with you too. I have smaller boobies and I've never had any guys or girls complain about them. I am a B cup and there is plenty to grab a hold of and play with. Plus, your breasts are still growing so don't worry about it so much.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Only if she is constantly mentioned in your relationship. But from the sounds of it he probably got bored of her personality or something and you seem more his type. And no boobs only matter to idiots there are more important things that appeal to a man sexually such as giving good head

[smbcomix]

I tend to focus more on how she looks as a whole, as well as her personality. Actually, boob size for me is equal to penis size when it comes to girls and their preferences. Whereas a girl will just be glad I have one, I'll just be glad she has boobs.

Though, I will admit, ANYTHING between A and D cup is perfect.

Here's my scale for it: A = "Awwwww <3", B = "Boo-yea!", C= "Cool", and D = "Damn!" Anything beyond D is "Aw HELL no!"

I certainly hope women's opinions of me didn't go down with that last bit. : /

[sexhelp101]

I think a flat chest on a girl is still VERY sexy. I have two best friends that both feel the same way. One of them is a singer in a nationally signed band. Be proud of what you have and know that there are A LOT of boys/men out there that will get turned on by smaller breasts. Besides, if he doesn't like them then it's time to find someone that will.

[tohrment]

He's with YOU now, 'nuff said. Don't worry about it, hun. From that description, it seems like he'd have more in common with you anyway. And generally no, breast size is irrelevant if a guy really likes you.

[queenofpeen]

It's normal, but it's even better to be more secure than that :) He chose YOU, you've obviously got something that appeals to him more than she does.

[Distant]

A-C is awesome. I'm not really a fan of huge boobs. Also: Popularity only matters in high school (or slightly after high school for jocks) so don't worry about it.

[peace-love-couture]

Yes, breast size matters, some prefer big, some prefer medium, some prefer small.

I guess it is normal, but you shouldn't feel jealous for long.

[peace-love-couture]

People thumbing me down are in denial

[jedisatan]

Any breast is a good breast. If he's dated you longer than he dated her, that says a lot. You don't need much more info than that

[Anonymous]

Exactly how big were her boobs do you think? And how much do you think she weighed overall?

[Anonymous]

yes and no respectively