I got played twice.. How to move on completely?

[Anonymous]

Guy I was seeing/ going on dates with on and off for 7months recently told me “ He didn’t love himself right now and that’s why he’s not ready for a relationship “ but turns out he LIED and he’s back with his EX-baby mama.. Can I have some advice on moving on , it hurts and I’ve been having a hard time accepting everything? We literally were just together last week and now he’s back with her. But at this point maybe I dodged a bullet..

[teamvic]

You definitely dodged a bullet because let's say you did get in that relationship with him

He most likely would've just cheated on you anyway. And because he went back with her so fast that tells me that they're gonna continue to have contact with eachother and therefore you're always gonna have to be suspicious about them because well. They are still into eachother.

Not the way to move on is simple. Block him on everything, delete every message, picture, anything about him and never look back. The less you see him. The less you'll think about him. Do that and give yourself time.. and eventually you'll move on😌

[Crankor]

Yah I knew before I finished reading, when someone says they don't love themselves, it usually means there's a conflict between two people. To move on, hang out with other people and keep busy with hobbies. Its still going to take time to get over it but distracting yourself will help