Break Up & Divorce

What would you do and what do you think?

So me ex broke up with me a few weeks before Christmas. We were together for almost 3 years. Since the break up weve had on amd off again communication. We've hung out once since the breakup. Anyways things got toxic between us. It almost feels like she wants me but then just wants my attention. When we originally started dating she was a "good" girl. Low body count and things started off very intense between us. We fell in love. Money problems and lack of trust slowly destroyed our relationship amd she decided to end things. After the breakup she turned to the party lifestyle, which she never did before. Total 180°. She wouldn't even drink when we dated. Anyways part of the reason we broke too is because i rewlly let myself go (stopped going to the gym and was broke) since the breakup im a better person than i ever was when i was with her and she knows this too. Im curious. Do you guys think she's slept woth anyone else? She was never that kind of girl. She also got a few tattoos which kinda soiled the image of who she used to be in my mind. We are both very different people now amd i really wanna ask her out and see if there's any connection between us. We both find it hard to totally let eachother go. Any tips on how to get her to say wether or not she's been woth other guys since we broke up? I want her back and i would only attempt to date again if she hasn't been with anyone else. If she has she's a hoe to me. Anyways a mutual friend who me and my ex used to work with texted me out of the blue (haven't seen or talked to her in 3 years) she always had a thing for me. She had the same boyfriend that she has now. This girl knows my ex and really was only friends with her cause she was with me. Her and my ex aren't really close.
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Anyways this other girl wants me and i could call her over whenever i want. I told my ex about this and i can sense the jealousy. So what would you guys do. Im planning asking my ex if she wants to grab some food Friday and go out. If she says no should i just block her and fuck her friend. I never like to be in situations like this. Ome thing too. My ex said she was dating someone only for her to tell me 2 days later that she was just lying (why lie?). I already floated the idea of taking her
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Out in the past. Bur she was never really recptive to it until now. What would you guys do? Hkw woukd i be able to tell if she's been with other guys. Ome thing tk mention. If me and my ex did get back together or families wouldn't approve. We cut ties deep between us and getting back togther would be tricky but if both wanted we could make it work. Thoughts amd advice?
What would you do and what do you think?
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