My ex is coming over so how do I act?

[Graci_e]

Okay so 2 years ago, I had a thing with this guy. He was the sweetest thing and no ones ever treated me so well. I could ramble for ages about how great of a guy he was and how much he meant to me, but I’ll spare you.

But yeah, he meant the whole world to me and I was absolutely crushed when we broke up. He was just very confused with life and had a lot of hurt.

The thing is - we probably wouldn’t of broken up. But from past trauma, when he started with that conversation I freaked out and acted like a defensive bitch because I was scared he was going to hurt me.

Eventually I was like what the hell are you doing, he’s a safe person and I hugged him and burst into tears. He was super sweet about it.

Anyway it’s been 2 years and I can’t forget him. It doesn’t consume me and I’ve had a boyfriend since, but I still miss him sometimes. I’ll always have a spot in my heart for him.

I don’t know if you believe in soul mates, but I feel like we had that sort of connection.

Our mums are best friends and him and his brother (who’s my friend) are gonna be coming over in a few days.

So this is the point of my question and I would like some advice: how do I act around him? I still have some sort of feelings for him.

I’ve written a short apology letter - nothing sappy at all, just an apology.

[Whatever2929292]

I think that just act like you. Don't try and force anything and just be yourself if that makes sense to you. You might be scared or nervous but that is normal and maybe even a little awkward. If you wrote him a apology letter then just give it to him and tell him that you have something for him.

Wish you the best! Yes I believe in soulmates and when you find your soulmate you will know at least for most people not everyone is the same

[RuthlessAggression]

If you're wanting an ex, that's an act of desperation. What you need some inspiration to just say, NO. I deserve better than an ex. And that's usually by making a call

[Graci_e]

Just because someone’s an ex, doesn’t mean it ended on horrible terms and you now hate each other, and can never be friends with or date that person again

[RuthlessAggression]

My cousin's wife cheated on him. She then called the cops on him because she thought he was stealing

[RuthlessAggression]

by the way, you have a biased MHO, for both men and women

[allure67]

Honestly, you seem to have a special place for him and I'm pretty sure you're really comfortable around him. You don't have to worry about how to act, what to say, what to do. Just go with the flow and don't bring up any triggering past topics. If he insists to talk about what happened between you two give it a go. Other than that, just enjoy your time with him.

[Graci_e]

Thank you :)

[WhitneySnow]

Give him the apology letter. Be sweet to him. Tell him you really missed him. Watch to see if he shows any signs of still having feelings for you too (being really sweet around you, acting awkward or nervous, finding excuses to touch you). If he does, maybe talk to him privately while he’s there about maybe getting back together.

[Graci_e]

Thank you :)

I’m kinda nervous haha

[WhitneySnow]

Good luck 😊. I’ll be praying for you guys to get back together.

[Graci_e]

Thank you

[WhitneySnow]

Thanks for MHO 😊

[IsoUser]

I'll be the first to say always give someone a second chance but to be honest I don't even know what you're talking about given your long winded vague description. Sorry I can't honestly help you. PM ME

[RandomGuy1030]

Act like how you know to. Writing an 'apology ' shows how well behaved you are. Nothing is more appealing.

[allure67]

noone needs to go out of their way to show how "well behaved" one can be. just stand your ground and if they can't recognize your worth. then leave no matter how hard

[RandomGuy1030]

@allure67 Are you trying to be appealing or a feminist.

[innerman]

2yrs
and you are apologizing now... with a letter!!!
why dnt you just run and hug him the moment he gets out of the car.

[Graci_e]

That would be so weird

[innerman]

My exact thoughts about the letter.
Just pretend he was your kindergarten friend and you even dnt remember his last name

[Tstrbrainer]

Just act normally, give him your apology letter.

[Tstrbrainer]

Since you have a boyfriend, do you really want to get back with him?

[Graci_e]

I don’t have a boyfriend

[Tstrbrainer]

Well then go ahead and try if you can work things out with him.
Good luck

[JohnK123]

How u have an ex at 15

[Graci_e]

I’m 16

[Graci_e]

And plenty of 15yr olds gave exs. It’s normal.

[JohnK123]

Oh then ur age on profile is wrong haha and ya ik but u should be more focused on school at our age

[Graci_e]

I don’t need to be told what to do and focus on by a 16yr old thanks. I’m doing perfectly fine in those areas and way above my peers, wise one.

[JohnK123]

Well good for u then I just know way too many people focus on love in school rather than the reason why they go to school

[Wise4myage]

Don't let a lion into your den.

[allure67]

wtfuck 😂