Late night snap?

[Anonymous]

My ex sent me a snap last night around 930, the first snap she's sent me in a month after she ended things... it was only a picture of her cat (which she knows I love her cat) but still, I'm hoping it's cuz she was missing me...

[Anonymous]

There was only one breakup I went through where I was really concerned about the guy's mental health afterwards. I felt tremendous guilt for leaving him, even though I knew it was the right thing to do. If your ex is like me, then she sent the picture of her cat because she's concerned about your well-being and doesn't want to think of you suffering. It proves that she does not hate you and in fact hopes that the picture will brighten your mood because she knows you liked her cat.

[Asker]

Never thought of it like that... I mean, I care about her well being too. I care about her more than anything (never got the chance to tell her that, well I guess technically I did but I kept waiting and waiting for the best moment and eventually lost the chance) 😥 we had no communication for 2 weeks after the breakup until she commented on a few of my fb posts but then deactivated her account hours later...

[Opinion Owner]

If she deactivated the account, it means that she is seriously worried about how you're feeling and how you're thinking about her. She's wondering if you hate her, still have feelings for her, if you're ok, what you thought when you saw that she commented on your posts. She deactivated the account because she doesn't even want to know what you'll post or say or think about her and wants to just get rid of the whole thing and hopes it will disappear.

[Asker]

Why would she care how I'm feeling or how I'm thinking about her? And there's no need to deactivate her account when she could just easily delete me...

[Opinion Owner]

Because it’s less of a blow to deactivate an account than to know you’ve been blocked. She could also have just had enough of the facebook drama for a while and need a break. Deactivating isn’t the same as deleting, so she could still reactivate. But for now, she’s just having a lot of emotions. And she cares how you’re feeling because she isn’t a monster. She might not want to be in a relationship with you but she still cares about how you feel and doesn’t want to think of you being sad or angry.

[Asker]

Ugh I don't know, I can't stop thinking about her and I miss her like crazy... each day gets harder and harder.. go read my last post and give me your opinion there

[Opinion Owner]

Which post?

[Asker]

My ex girlfriend deactivated her Facebook and now her snap score hasn't changed in 5 days... I messaged her 2 days ago, she opened it after like 7hrs but because of her snap score not changing, I thought she logged off... but I guess not if she opened my message? I know I sound crazy but I'm crazy about her and care about her so much... I've never been this fucked up over a girl before... she had me wrapped around her heart so tight.. miss her so much 😥

[Asker]

I copied my post ^

[Opinion Owner]

Why did she break up with you? I don’t mean to pry but the circumstances of the breakup might make it easier for me to help you gain clarify. What kinds of arguments did you guys have? Did she tell you any reasons for why it happened?

[Asker]

I'll message you