Ex asking a favor?

[Anonymous]

Why does my ex want me to an extra mile to deliver his mail to his parents house til he changes his address? When all I can do is have him come here and get it himself or put RTS on it?
That’s like an hour drive I would have to make, but why does he want me to do that?
He’s the one who broke up with me 2 weeks ago.

[Guy13]

🤔, you’re nice…. I woukd have written return to sender or not at this address and out that 💩 back in box with flag up. Every adult knows how to change of address form.
You must still like him a little bit… Hoping for a coming back together ⁉️

[Asker]

I still love him and hoping he’ll come back, but I don’t want to do this favor for him if it’s all for nothing

[Guy13]

I question his sense of Responsibility. These are simple responsibilities…. Can a guy who does or does not do 💩 as easy as this…can this guy maintain you in a deserving manner? His responsibilities at least double but yet he can’t handle how own.

[Asker]

I often question that too because his excuse was “I didn’t have time”, he had plenty of time to make that change but it seems like it wasn’t his priority. You’re right though cause I have done a lot of things for him as his girlfriend

[Guy13]

I’m not trying to be mean…but he already has a Momma…it’s wonderful to want to do for people…serve in a positive way.-I get that as it gives me joy too. BUT damn irresponsible in little things likely irresponsible in big things. It’s so damn hard to find anyone who understands that balance these days…. They get lazy, sometimes take advantage, and kill a huge part of my heart doing that 💩. Wow, I don’t envy you🤷🏻‍♂️.

[Asker]

You’re right I’m not his mother, I refuse to get used again. I’ll do my part and put RTS instead of making the drive

[Guy13]

Still though, I hope it eventually works out as you wish... Good Luck !!

[melnc]

Tell him no. Even if you have feelings for him, you don't owe him anything. Never do something you don't want to do.

[Wise4myage]

F that. Write return to sender on his mail.