I have tried to be there , believe what he say , but tell me what you guys would do?

[bbhhgirl]

So this man just told me how he loved me so much and everything. I have been here for this man. He’s going through a divorce of 7 years. Today I went to add him on Facebook while me and my child was in his house after spending a night with him he posted a Facebook memory of him and his wife and their son with a sad face.

[WonderBell99]

I'm really sorry about the situation you are in. If I were you, I would move on. It seems like he is still with his wife and son. This situation is way too complicated as there is also a child involved, and his wife and child will always be in his life.

Personally, I don't think it is a good idea to get into a relationship with someone who is going through the process of divorce. 7 years is a long time, and he needs some time to sort himself out and figure out the person he wants to be, before figuring out the type of person he wants to share his life with. He seems like he is emotional. Please keep your distance with him and take this slow. Have a chat with him and keep your distance. Don't get too involved and give him some space. Be open and let him know how you feel.

[yucychan]

Obviously he is still tied with his wife and son, and they will always be a part of his life.

If you can't accept that, then leave.

[Guy13]

Wow, that is very difficult. Sorry. I do not think he realizes what he has. I know he had to be... not thinking clearly what the effect is. You two talk yet?

[bbhhgirl]

I am texting him now because my mind is blown right now. He hasn’t gotten back yet

[Guy13]

Oh my... good luck with all that !!

[Anonymous]

honestly you should just move on... you can't win over a dude's child and his wife. the bond is too strong, no matter the problems.