I was dumped by my girlfriend for being a farmer. How do I forget she existed?

[introvertedfeeler]

I was with her for 2 months, pursued her and was willing to court her. I was successful in winning her heart even if she wasn't able to reciprocate the attention and the effort I made for her. I do believe in unconditional love so I didn't care even if I was always the one who initiated conversations.

But after she found out that I live in a rural area, she abruptly ended the relationship as she told me that I'm too filthy to date her. Most likely because she's a city girl.

May I just ask why is it a red flag if I do farming for a living?

[MCheetah]

Sounds like you're much better off without such a person. Stop being a simp and grow your balls back. Don't waste your time with someone who isn't worth it and doesn't appreciate you.

[slatyb]

There's a dating site for people who prefer a rural lifestyle. I think it's called "Farmers Only" or something similar.

[introvertedfeeler]

The point is, why can't a woman appreciate the simple things. She literally made fun of my lifestyle.

[slatyb]

That's ugly. There are some ugly people on the world.

[Ms_Facesitter]

You can't. You'll always remember her. But it's been only two months, so it's not that bad.

[introvertedfeeler]

Why is it a turn off to women if a guy is from the rural area? Why can't you girls appreciate the simple things?

[introvertedfeeler]

When a guy has little or nothing to offer, he just gets dumped immediately. Such a shame.

[introvertedfeeler]

Why is it a red flag if I just live in a rural area and that girls think rural guys are garbage? :(

[Ms_Facesitter]

Maybe it's not a lifestyle she had in mind for herself. I'm sure a farm is a huge commitment. Me for example I do like the city life.

[Ms_Facesitter]

But I know nothing of farmers, maybe it can get worked out. Then again, would you be okay with someone who wants to work her own job still?

[introvertedfeeler]

I have no control over what she does. If she's happy at what she does then I respect it. I just want women to appreciate the simple things a bit more and maybe, show compassion to guys who are doing their best for them, but I guess being a farmer isn't enough.

[introvertedfeeler]

I take it. I need to be wealthy in order to please a girl.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm already happy when he gives me a hug and a kiss :)
Your ex just hates farmers or looks down on them, so not your type to date. Don't think we are all going to react or be just like her.

[Ms_Facesitter]

They are the red flag.

[introvertedfeeler]

Sorry for being overly dramatic, but all I want is to just feel appreciated in a relationship.

[Ms_Facesitter]

As do we all :)

[In_Trance]

How did she not know this before she became your girlfriend?

[introvertedfeeler]

She loved the attention I gave her which led to a point where she only fell in love with me because of what I can do for her.

[Wise4myage]

Focus on yourself and keep yourself distracted.