Ex wants my to get a abortion and remain friends?

[Anonymous]

I found out I was pregnant after me and my ex boyfriend broke up he told me he didn’t want the baby even though it was planned he said I should get a abortion and he didn’t want it because we are not in a relationship. I asked him if we could fix our relationship and he told me he didn’t want to because we argue too much after he told me no but he still wanted to be my friend i agreed but realized I couldn’t handle being his friend so I told him I was done being his friend and if he didn’t want to fix our relationship we don’t need to talk anymore after I said that he called me and told me we needed to talk when he got off of work and he didn’t want me out of his life for good when we talked he still asked me to be his friend would you be friends with your ex?

Updates

1 y

He wants me to keep it now but he just wants to be friends he’s dating his ex now

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

I honestly couldn't be friends with any man who told me to get an abortion after we PLANNED to get pregnant and he decided to leave. I truly don't think men understand what that does to us emotionally or physically. They don't usually even understand what the procedure consists of nor considers how we respond after. The BOY doesn't care and wants to keep the door open. Do what you feel is best regarding the pregnancy but I feel like it wouldn't be in your best interest to keep that creep around.

[Screenwriter]

GIRL!! Cut this ass out of your life. He wants to "be friends," is the lamest no-guilt way to break up with someone ever.

He doesn't mean it. How can you be friends with someone who has had a child with you? Don't forget to get all his information so you can sue him for child support.

He's already "dating" someone else. He has no clue about his responsibilities as the father of a child.

I'm very sad for you, but you're going to need financial help to raise this child. I'd avoid any relationship with this loser, except IF he commits to co-parent. If he doesn't, you'll have to ALSO sue for full custody.

This is a mess you're going to have to clean up on your own. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Fuck no lol he wants to be your friend so he can still fuck you w out the responsibility of having a child. Sorry so vulgar but I’m being honest. He knows how you really feel about him, that even as a “friend” if he came to you he could get some ass from you because of your feelings for him. He may even trick you into getting some tail by saying things such as possibility getting back together. I guarantee you he will have someone else on the side, would t doubt if he has someone now. As for the baby, we’ll that is up to you.

[JustinTheGreat]

Dude is definitely a dick for planning to have a child with you just to change his mind and ask you to abort it after you got pregnant 🙄

have you decided if you’re keeping the baby or not? If you are then maybe you should keep in contact with him so you guys can at least coparent. But if you’re not keeping it, then I don’t see the point in remaining friends.

[leighbee]

It is up to her now

[Urvashi_Slutty]

if you feel love in him, you can keep it for future memory.

[leighbee]

Depends if she wants to be a single mother or not now

[Urvashi_Slutty]

@leighbee obviously

[leighbee]

😂😂😂

[leighbee]

Do what you wanna do :)

[misogynistic_pig]

Abortion should be illegal in all cases.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Interesting, so if your sister or girlfriend was raped you would want her to have it? What if she got pregnant and it's ectopic (in her tubes). Would you also feel that abortion is wrong or should the unviable fetus just grow until her tubes bust which then can cause internal organ damage risking her life as well. Im curious.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Still legal where you are?

[Anonymous]

He wants to have his cake and eat it too.

[Anonymous]

no..