My ex and I have been broken up for almost a year we continued being friends after our breakup and started sleeping together a few months ago. During our friendship he told me he did not want a relationship and he wants to focus on his goals I was fine with that. 4 months into us sleeping together I became pregnant When I told him I was pregnant he told me he would be there for me and our child but A few weeks into my pregnancy he started becoming disrespectful and he was not there for me and he did not come to my 2 appointments. After a while I told him I did not want him around during my pregnancy and I would contact him around my due date so we could talk about our child because he was stressing me out and becoming more and more disrespectful. When I told him that he said he did not want me to go through with the pregnancy. And that I was a bum (I have my own place and make more than him) and only wanted to keep the baby for extra income. I started ignoring his calls and text so he started to threaten me and show up at my house until I agreed to get the abortion.
I was in the clinic for 6 hours alone he did not come to my appointment and only contacted me that day to make sure I was at the appointment. It has been 2 weeks since I got the abortion and now he has been contacting me asking for another chance saying he wants to be with me and that he has changed. I explained to him several times for 2 days that I don’t want to give our relationship another try he got mad and left me alone for 2 days and now he’s contacting me again asking for another chance if I did what he asked me to do why won’t he leave me alone and just move on I know he’s seeing someone else Because I found out I had a std from him the day after I left my appointment
I was in the clinic for 6 hours alone he did not come to my appointment and only contacted me that day to make sure I was at the appointment. It has been 2 weeks since I got the abortion and now he has been contacting me asking for another chance saying he wants to be with me and that he has changed. I explained to him several times for 2 days that I don’t want to give our relationship another try he got mad and left me alone for 2 days and now he’s contacting me again asking for another chance if I did what he asked me to do why won’t he leave me alone and just move on I know he’s seeing someone else Because I found out I had a std from him the day after I left my appointment
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I'm really sorry that you had to go through with that. Please don't give him any other chance. Maybe you could've call the cops when the threatening started but now best thing you can do is keep him out of your life. He seems abusive and dangerous, don't let him hurt you
Sounds like he got scared of the idea and freaked out. If he was threatening you you should have called the cops and make your own decision.
Also you could have given it up for adoption if you truly couldn’t care for it on your own.
Sorry it's hard to have any sympathy here. The moment he made threats towards you, your ass should have called the cops especially with him showing up.