How long will this breakup take to get over?

[justaguy141414]

This story is kind of embarrassing but oh well I guess. I always had trouble with women growing up and it lead to the awkward situation of loosing by virginity in my early thirties to this girl. She had a kid from a previous relationship and we ended up dating for about 3 years. We got engaged moved in together etc. She also got pregnant and when she was 7 months pregnant, she took off and moved in with another guy. When she had the child they wouldn't let me come to the birth but I got hit will child support court about a month later. I ended up having to pay her 1400$ in child support and the new guy is basically replacing me as the father. Will this be something takes me a really long time to bounce back from? Any input helps.

[Avicenna]

Go to court and assert your rights to visitation. Do it now. And you need to get that child support amount revisited unless you’re a really high earner

It’s going to take a long time to get over because of what she’s doing. Totally pathetic on her part.

[Anonymous]

I really don’t understand this kind of a women/ they must have been so emotionally damaged not raised properly. Ok I understand you can get pregnant first time life is a bitch I get it you were young and rushed got pregnant etc.
but then she met you and while she was pregnant with YOU at 7 months pregnant she found someone else !!! Also with a previous child:
And obviously she will get pregnant with tjis new guy too duh
That’s wild
I don’t know who to blame. You or her or bad parenting.
I actually don’t blame you I blame the 3rd men accepting a women with 2 random kids I don't know man that’s sick
Have some dignity work make your one money stop getting pregnant for money you are not a dog
And you are destroying a men life too. Sick

[Sunflower2412]

Wow, I’m really sorry you had to deal with this. It’s not fair to you and you should take this to the courtroom and explain what happened. She took you out of the child’s life, not the other way around.

[Guy13]

Get an attorney

[In_Trance]

As long as you want it too