Have you ever left the girl you loved? and regretted it later?

[dreamerx3]

i have heard a lot of stories of guys who leave the girl of their dreams for many reasons..they are too young, they want to experience more, friends pressure them. and they realize they will never meet anyone better then that one girl. has it ever happened to you? did you go back to her? how long did it take for you to realise? my boyfriend left me but we were so serius for each other due to his friends and him only being 18. I hope one day a long the line, he realizes how much I meant to him.

[Iamnobody]

when I was with my ex, I was at a confusing time in my life and I didn't know the right way to go about handling things. she stayed with me but she had doubts that I wasn't serious about her. I felt strongly for the girl but I didn't show it. I was afraid of showing affection. one day she got tired and left. instead of fighting for her, I left it alone. she then met someone else and they've been together ever since. it was the worst mistake of my life and thinking about it makes me want to shoot myself for being so stupid sometimes. I never stopped loving her since the day she walked away but some things just can't be in this life I guess.

[dreamerx3]

wow I'm so sorry to hear that. but if you haven't stopped loving her for this long maybe you should let her know. he was going through a weird time too. his grandma got cancer. he got out of high school. full time job. school. and friends idk. I guess people don't realize the worth of someone until its gone.

[Iamnobody]

well I've thought about it but honestly I don't even know where to start. besides, when I see her happy with him it makes me hold back a little. I don't want to be the one to ruin a good thing.

[TwistedLogic]

Nope, not me. I've never broken up with a girl before, they were the ones who did it. I don't know if they regret it and I don't care if they do, I've got myself an amazing woman now.

P.S: Sorry to hear your story. His reasons are imbecilic and immature, you should move on and get him out of your head. Because trust me, he's missing out so much. :)

[dreamerx3]

thank you :) good luck with yours

[Anonymous]

My ex is doing this right now. He broke up with me because he felt he was too young and needed to be single, experience college. It's been about a month and a half now and he's begging for me back. Saying he realized I was the best thing to ever happen to him, he'll never meet another woman like me, and wants to be together forever. It's possible, but at least in my case, when he broke up with me, that was it. I told him we had to break contact and never contacted him once. He slowly started texting/calling/Facebook messaging me over time, but I think he wouldn't have realized how much he missed me if I hadn't made a clean break.

[dreamerx3]

you are so right! I shoudnt have agreed to be friends. like he took me out for my birthday were nice to each other. I wish I said goodbye. I know he would have regretted it. the first 3 weeks we did not talk at all and he was already beginning to regret it, posting pix on fb that had to do with our promises to each other. then I texted him..i hope by me ignoring him now, itll work. your so lucky! don't give in easily

[prettymuscle]

the only way he can regret is if he doesn't find a women who isn't better then you at every way

[dreamerx3]

he wont! :)

[prettymuscle]

yea but how can you be so sure

[dreamerx3]

he was a player. he found me he changed all that. he said things about the future with me. if he left me, he wants to go have fun again. not to find another girl. and trust me where I'm from, clean girls are hard to find.

[prettymuscle]

i mean would you take him back

[dreamerx3]

that, I have no idea

[prettymuscle]

so really you just want him to feel your pain

[dreamerx3]

yea its kind of a selfish thing to say but I want the ball in my court. because he feels so good knowing he can have his cake and eat it too.

[prettymuscle]

ha so you want the ball in your court and you scoring all the points

[dreamerx3]

its just when someone gives you so many promises and leaves it leaves the person so angry and sad and stupid. I just want to know that those werent empty promises, that he meant it. and the only way ill know if he regrets it. if not, then I guess I wasn't serius for him

[PassionPrevails]

yep

[dreamerx3]

did you win her back?

[PassionPrevails]

failed miserably

[dreamerx3]

why did you wait too long? when did you begin regreting it?

[PassionPrevails]

I might have waited too long as she found someone else fairly quick. So yeah. I do regret it, everyday I do