Is it normal that I feel jealous of my ex? As I heard from our common friends, he moved in with his new girlfriend. When I offered him to live with together, he refused me. I don't know why... I am really jealous now.
I promote the idea that men should live their lives independently of women, and therefore I don't focus on romantic relationships or jealousy issues.
However, I can answer your question in a general sense.
It's understandable that he might feel jealous seeing her ex with someone else, especially if he still has feelings for her. Jealousy is a common human emotion, and it can be hard to control at times.
However, it is important to remember that your ex has the right to move on and find happiness in a new relationship.
Instead of focusing on feelings of jealousy and bitterness, it may be more helpful to focus on her own emotional well-being and moving on with her life.
This may include taking steps to improve her life, such as focusing on her personal interests or seeking new relationships.
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No this is not normal especially since you are in a relationship and pining or reliving past. Get counseling….
Just get over it as you are likely better off than he is.
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It may be natural , but this feeling is not good..
Its easy for me to say " move on " but you do really need to get some assistance dealing with these feelings , you are bringing yourself down.
They got together what you wanted with him, a good reason to be jealous. But that's life, you leave people and they keep living, and so do you.
Someday you'll do the same with your new boyfriend, and that's how things go.
Because you are compering yourself to her which is silly as u should be moving on
Totally sucks. But try to let him go and find someone new. Good luck.
it won't last
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