How do I get over the love of my life , my world feels empty and he has a new girlfriend, I feel like my heart is breaking?

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Ben487 · Accepted Answer

Maybe you can gain some solace in knowing that you were not the love of his life. He has found the love of his life, or at least the potentiality of such a love... it's probably this other woman. Expecting him to pass on his ideal woman would be unfair to this man.

Also, consider the fact that If he didn't feel the same way, why is it that you insist he was this love of your life to begin with. Imagine a man where your love does not remain unrequited but is returned to you with the same passion. Perhaps a man like that exists. Instead of wallowing over this guy you should be happy that you didn't get stuck in an unhappy one sided marriage with whoever this was. He would clearly be settling for something he doesn't want and it would not have ended well. Move on with grace and try to pick your next partner with a more discerning eye.

MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

You'll be alright, I know it feels like ahit now but the best thing you can do is delete everything, all contacts, pictures, videos, messages, anything that will tie you to him and them move on, the more time you live without him, the number it will eventually get

Anarcamus · Accepted Answer

How do you know he has a new Girlfriend?
What proof do you have?

Its always important to provide that context as well as more details, its too common for people to create stories for themselves in the absence of information. Also who left who? If you left him, then you have to respect unconditional love and know that what is important is his happiness because you left him anyway. If he left you, respect yourself and realize you have worth.

The important part is to actually have proof, the hardest thing for most people is to accept that Feelings are not Facts.

es20490446e · Answer

Many times we feel sad for what POTENTIALLY could have been, but it hasn't been for REAL.

boggboss · Answer

Cut contact don't check up on him and move on

ERB62 · Answer

Find a guy you like and have sex with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Move on girl

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