Girls, Have you ever looked for reasons to break up with a guy?

[Anonymous]

Like I wouldn’t be doing anything wrong to this girl and the smallest thing she would escalate it all the way to breaking up. I didn’t want to go to the fair that day because I failed my driving test, she wanted to breakup, didn’t want to go to nyc for new years because of anxiety she wanted to breakup. It’s like it got to the point where my sister was like it’s just gonna happen again it’s only a matter of time

[devilish-cutie]

No, but women may want to break up over seemingly "small things" to a guy, but here is a big reason! Chances are some things are very important to her and you failed to do them times and times again, so she is fed up. Eg. you didn't want to go somwhere when she really wanted to go there and that happened a lot of times. She wants to break up cause she thinks you are not considerate of her wants and needs. One times it may happen, but more times it becomes an issue that may make her think she wants to break up. Other thing is also cause she has hard time understanding you so she may strongly want one thing while you strong want another, basically differences in character or gender. When you are inexperienced in dating its hard for you to compromise or also every person is different and you gotta adjust; plus idealistic views on relationships and how things hould be. So she may think oh I can't deal with you doing this and that cause its making her feel horrible but for you that is seemingly not relevant, but to her is or vice versa...