Have you done anything drastic or crazy after a breakup? What was the mentality you had to do it?

[Anonymous]

I’m just finding out my ex got married to a stranger one month after we split.

It seemed like a clean breakup but I’m just finding out he took off to a foreign country, met a girl and married her within a few days.

I’m just thinking that’s crazy and maybe he was narcissistic or he was hurt or felt desperate?

Has anyone done anything crazy like this after a breakup?

*The relationship was great and I loved him very much but he didn’t want to commit and that made me feel like an option. So I’m also taken aback that he married a stranger.

[ZiZi_Bell]

So this is embarrassing.

I was dating a guy for a few months, he turned out to be either a narcissist or had BPD, not sure which. We ended up breaking up and he gave me a whole rant about how he's the best I'll ever have and I'll never find someone as good and blagh blagh blagh. Really tried to make me feel small and worthless, but just ended up pissing me off. Lol

Long story short, I ended up calling an uber to go home, and halfway through the drive ended up fucking the driver and calling my now ex during to let him know it only took me ten minutes to find someone who could perform as good if not better than him.

Not my proudest moment. Lol

[Asker]

Oh man, that is a very crazy story! xD

I completely understand it though lol

[Gent207-2]

You dodged a bullet

But oh to your question, my oh my too many examples.

I deleted my FB profile I had since 2007 because I didn't want to face the last two years of a past relationship (2013-15)

I broke up with one girl in HS by saying she was too young for me and then I took her friend to prom. (Oh don't worry that girl dumped me and try to go out with my best guy friend after the first slow dance. So yeah karma is a bitch. But we are great friends now.)

Uhhh let's see

I broke up with another girl after she got my name tattooed on her hand. We were LDR after meeting up on a 1 week mission's trip with a church. I did ask her what would she do if that happened.

[Anonymous]

Yes every one does! That means he was cheating during the relationship!

So awful seeing that happen!

My first ex I just went crazy till I met my loving sweet wife and she helped me. Sometimes just having wonderful sex helps and focusing on you!

My wife loves helping and talking with those who need it. She is so warm and kind especially when she is pregnant and bored like she is now.

If your open to being bi she will happily make you forget that guy!