Is it possible to hate someone you used to love? And how do you tell them you hate them without actually telling them?

[Anonymous]

I'm not mean. I hate that person because he broke my heart so bad, and he thinks I still love him, but I want to make it clear that I hate him without having to tell him directly.

[ChiTown33]

Not for me. I don't hate anyone. And I certainly can't hate anyone I've loved. Now I might not like some of the things that happened, some of the things they did to me. And if it ended badly it might even be necessary for me to sever all ties with them. But I'll never stop caring about them. And I'll always wish them well. It's not easy to get in my heart but once a person is there they will never leave. I don't know how some people can turn that off like a switch, I can't.

The best way you can "show him" is rise. Become bigger and brighter than before. Become so bright that he has no choice but to see your light. And at that point... does it really matter anymore whether he sees it? This is how we grow, move on and ultimately succeed. Use it as fuel.

[Anonymous]

I thought that was quite common?

[jahaims]

Duh.