Will my ex ever mentally get pas me having sex with his cousin know it was years before him and unintentionally, not know who he was before ,?

[Anonymous]

It’s was never intentional?

his cousin and I was just sex only twice no relationship

And he can’t get passed that his cousin had me sexually so he don’t feel comfortable bring me to family and couple outings or even marrying me?

I just lost my soulmate based on my past that I can not change? Is this something he truly can’t get past he said he tried but it keeps triggering him mentally every time everyone is togther so we gotta break up

[SueShe]

I have a hard time understanding how copulating with a person can be an accident or unintentional, unless of course, the fornication was the result of rape. That is a totally different story but I assume that you were not raped but were consensual.

Some people have a hard time understanding that their partner may have fornicated with others before them and what aggravates the situation in your case is that the copulating was with a member of the extended family, namely a cousin.

That could lead to frictions with that cousin. Could also be that your ex does not have a good relationship with him and that this adventure of yours does further impact that negative relationship between your ex and his cousin.

[Asker]

So you’re basically saying anyone you had ever had sex with , how can you determine who their family are if it wasn’t a relationship or nothing serious if you never met their family. But three years later met a guy and it serous and at a family reunion see the person that was casual 3 years later. No I’m had to power to predict the future like that

[sheikalana]

I doubt. There are certain things men can never get over. It's an ego thing. Even if you didn't know him at that time he will always remember that at some point in your life you and his cousin had sex. You shouldn't even have mentioned that such thing happened.

[AmeerX]

That's the lamest excuse to break up. You were with his cousin before him and not during the relationship

[Asker]

He said he don’t feel comfortable being on the phone with me or answering my call when he around his cousin and vise versa and when we all togther he can’t help but to think he had a part of me. It’s just sucks cause I don’t know what he wants me to do about my past

[AmeerX]

You know he is just trying to make you feel like trash to feel like he owns you because he let it go.
There are far more worst things people do and they are fine in relationships.
I suggest you dump him and find someone else or give the hint of dumping him to test if he was really lying

[boggboss]

I honestly don't think so I wouldn't date someone my friends or family had been with before personally

[boggboss]

I could be friends with them but would never see myself having a relationship with them

[Asker]

Even if you never knew they were not family , it only came to light at a family gathering who would have know my past would have ended my future, our relationship was damn beast perfect

[boggboss]

Yes even if u never knew beforehand for me its a non negotiable I have been with my partner for 6 years and we are getting ready for our wedding but if it came out she had slept with in the past a friend of mine or family member before we was together I would end things

[Anonymous]

“It was never intentional?”

So the sex was an accident? 🤣

[Asker]

So you’re basically saying anyone you had ever had sex with , how can you determine who their family are if it wasn’t a relationship or nothing serious if you never met their family. But three years later met a guy and it serous and at a family reunion see the person that was casual 3 years later. No I’m had to power to predict the future like that

[Asker]

So you’re basically saying anyone you had ever had sex with , how can you determine who their family are if it wasn’t a relationship or nothing serious if you never met their family. But three years later met a guy and it serous and at a family reunion see the person that was casual 3 years later. No I’m had to power to predict the future like that

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex

[Kelly6]

he's ex so why do you care?

[MissBoogus]

That sounds fucked might need to break up

[Luckycharms12]

No never