So after visiting him in Poland and him ghosting me for a few days after sex we broke up. He was the one breaking up with me and I asked if we could stay friends but he told me that people that have been as intimate as us couldn’t go back to being friends.
So I accepted his lousy excuses for a break-up sent him a last text saying thank you for everything and good luck with your future. Which he also answered to. On the day of the break up he removed me from instagram (not blocked but removed) and a week later I can see that his profile picture on WhatsApp is gone (he never changes his profile picture) and he might have blocked me.
He could have blocked me on the day of the break up after sending that last text. İ didn’t call or text him after that last text I sent on the day we broke up. We ended on friendly terms and without a fight so I don’t understand this behaviour to be honest.
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Girl, that sounds confusing as heck what he did. Blocking you a whole week after the breakup just seems shady.
Honestly, it sounds like he was looking for any excuse to cut things off without taking any accountability. Giving you lame reasons like "we can't be friends" is such a cop-out. And ghosting you after you visited him? Majorly rude.
My suspicion is he felt guilty about something and wanted to put more distance between you two. Removing you on Instagram right away was his way of starting to disconnect, even if you ended on good terms. Then blocking your number a week later was that final step.
It's like he was doing some cowardly slow fade instead of being straight with you. Some guys just can't handle breaking hearts I guess. Try not to overthink it - his actions say way more about him than you.
You're probably better off without the games. His loss! Now you're free to meet someone better who'll treat you with respect. Don't waste your time stressing over some dude who couldn't even man up. His problem, not yours. Keep your chin up Queen!
What exactly is the question?
you broke up he blocked you, move on
People still use that spyware?