I might already know some of y'all stories so you don't gotta repeat it lol
How many exes have you had?
I might already know some of y'all stories so you don't gotta repeat it lol
I have had 4 ex’s.
First relationship I ever been was when I was 15 and the guy was 16. Him and I only lasted 3 months, relationship ended because he had made it clear that he no longer wanted to be with me with his actions. Also, I remember asking him what’s been going on with “ us “ - he responded with “ I need a break “ and I remember replying “ you want us break up? “ and then he said “ if that’s what you want to consider it “ . I held my tears , said okay and well I walked away and looked for the closest bathroom near by to cry because if I wouldn’t had asked what’s been happening with him - I would had never found out how he felt about me truly.
second ex, I met him when I started to attend a different high school. I was in sophomore year and he was in his senior year. I was 16 and he was 18. I no longer had my first boyfriend in my mind, I truly did move on. With my second ex, him and I only lasted 3 months together. It ended because it got to the point where he felt stuck in life and he felt that it wouldn’t get any better. He was “ afraid” that I’d end up feeling that way for being with him he told me, he was afraid he’ll pull be down and he did not want that so told me to leave him. Truth is, he was indeed going through life with a different frequency and it was negatively indeed effecting me. His behavior weeks prior him and I had ended things with one another, he was no longer attentive, loving and considerate. So I did end up leaving without feeling any kind of heartache, I cried once thing ended yes but I deep down from my core knew that there was no him and I anymore. It stopped feeling like it was only him and I against the world.
Third ex, the relationship lasted 3 week. I met him few days on Facebook after I had ended things with my second ex. The relationship ended because he told me that he no longer wanted to be in a relationship with me, that he did not want to string me along. I knew from the beginning that him and I did not got into the relationship out of love, it was because he took my v******** and he just wanted to have me in his life to get easy s*** meanwhile I, on the other hand , I stayed because I truly had nothing going on for myself. It was summer time when him and I where dating, him and I would see each other consistently and because I was bored - he made my life less boring. Again.. he was not a boring guy to me. He was funny, good looking. He was a sex addict yes and that was his only flaw from what I knew. Although I did take the tittle of being in a relationship seriously, I knew it was not a serious relationship because I knew he was messing around with other girls while being in a “ relationship “ with me.
Fourth ex, him and I ended things with each other a week ago. We are currently In no contact, him and I met at age 18 different high school. He was a senior and I was a super senior soon to graduate. I was only 3 months away from graduating. So, him and I have been together for a long time. 2 years and a half. after the first year him and I went no contact 3 months. we got back together and after a month or two- again to no contact for 5months this time. We just got back at the end of January. And it was a final breakup a week ago. During the first year the first time I broke up with him three days later we got back together and those breakups attempts from my end became a loop. I attempted to end things with him for 30 times and him and I always got back together to attempt and make the relationship work. Reason why I bring this up is because it seems to me now that it was bound not to work out, all this time he wanted a non monogamous relationship and I wanted to be in a non monogamous relationship. It got to the point where him and I would communicate in a way that we no longer cared about each other feelings, we would see each other cry heavily for the other without feeling any kind of remorse. A lot of yelling. He has said a lot of awful hurtful things to me. A lot was happening that, it was just to much for me. I no longer wanted to feel unsafe and unhappy, and that’s he is an ex now.
It seems to me like all your relationships were one sided love to be honest I'm surprised I even read all this but since I did, this is what I got from it, like 2 of them was teen love which normally aren't taken seriously, at least you are young and I'm sure you've learned from them all.
Well you've got some relationship experience at least and you'll find the real stuff at some point
Wow, wonder sex stories, should have fuckers in dozens
Wow, wonderful sex stories, should have fuckers in dozens
Four. First was from highschool and of course things didn’t work lol. Both of us were too young to know what we wanted. Second one in university. He became controlling and toxic so I ended it. Third- met when I started my first job. He moved to a different town for a new job so things became distant and we stopped seeing each other. Last ex- broke up due to our religion difference (he is a Muslim) The fourth ex is the most serious one.
Was it the wanting more wives that was the deal breaker? Cause that would be completely understable, interesting dating history tho 🤔
Oh, I mean our relationship was the most serious compared to the other exes. He treated me really good. Not about the polygamy issue. The big problem is we ever get married, our kids must be a Muslim though I am not obligated to convert as their mother. I want to raise my children as a Christian, just like me. We broke up in a good way.
Oh yea that's understandable, I can understand that to a personal level as well considering I liked a girl that was Muslim but couldn't get with her cause of that reason but since you've actually dated a Muslim guy I can understand the children thing would be complicated, I know you don't need me assuring it but it was a good choice for both of you.
Yes, you really need to decide what is the best because interfaith marriage rarely very works if both strongly believe in their religion. This is a person that you will live with under one roof, not for a year or two, but for the rest of your life. Actually Muslims men can marry Christian and Jewish women without converting them, but Muslim women are not allowed to marry Non Muslims men. You gonna have a tough time with the family lol.
You have any experience dating non-religious types? How was that?
* Muslim men lol wtf with my typo going all around 😂
@Still-alive Yes, it wasn’t bad but it didn’t work for a different reason.
K cool, id like to think most of us are bery nonjudgmental in that way loo
Very*
@Still-alive Yes, I don’t mind dating Agnostic or Atheist as long as they are respectful towards my faith.
As they should be 😎
Yea that children part is probably what would show incompability considering most people want to spread their faith to their children and with two different faiths it will complicate things, you said it was all ended on good terms which sounds like y'all both understood and it was a mature decision y'all both made for your futures and it also shows y'all were both strong in your faiths and respected each other's faiths as well.
Uptill now 5 only, when going to dozen?
How do you define "ex?" Someone I dated once? Someone I dated more than three times? Someone I dated exclusively? Someone who was a sexual partner?
FYI, many women won't count hook ups as exes, so they could have had 50 + partners and claim they only had a couple exes.
Yea I'm aware of that, no one counts hookups as exes not even men
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First one was mean and controlling after quite a few years he stopped treating me like a woman and more like a buddy/roomate. Second one got into meth and wanted me to get into it. I just think so I would buy them with him and help him look for people selling 😂
only one... lack of communication is really the problem. i'm expressive he is the opposite of me but i'm not saying it is his fault because my best friend also before we've been together as friends since first year high school and she also does not share really personal studf so maybe i'm the problem. but when i review myself i am not judgmental and i feel like i'm actually one of the most understanding and nicest person in the crowd.
I had a few disappeared, they don't count anymore. And the others entered the witness protection program so I'm forced to pretend I don't remember them. Lots of paperwork.
What happened? 😂
Yup. Nope. Can't ask that. It's confidential. Page 365 paragraph seven
You killed them, didn't you?
They still count if you killed them dusty
@sirderpsalot123 🔮
Whoa... we both said the same topic in the same hour. Must be on the same wavelength. Too bad itzms about death and murder.
*it's
Why too bad? Lol
@sirderpsalot123 😂 You and horror
😂😂😂
I wouldn't even care. I'd just wonder how you got away with it
I'm sure they deserved it anyway
@sirderpsalot123 it is a curious tale. 😎
3 ACTUAL exes
i have dated guys for like a month or two but it wasn't serious at all so i don't count them
How many of those dates did you have momo? 😂
five but like again they didn't last long lol
oh yeah you asked somethin else. it ended with those 3 exes bc of bad timing or me being toxic. depends on the ex
Sounds like quite some stories, they shouldn't expect a momo to be easy tho
very true but imma pull a uno reverse card on you
how many exes have you had
Only one it was a good experience, it's unfortunate it didn't work out lol
im actually impressed you didn't avoid that question lol but that's good
Well cause Its not a big deal lol
three. One of them it just didn’t work out. The other two don’t need to be publicly outted
I've heard one of the ugly ones, you told me ☹
One, it was online lasted about 2 years. He was a predator and terminally ill. After using me for awhile we broke up, and then he died a few months after.
Oof geez, you want mho
0. I went from no girlfriends to a girlfriend then married that girlfriend. Though we never really had the boyfriend girlfriend talk. I asked her out and then a while later I asked her to marry me
Two. We just weren't compatible and I couldn't be my full shit head self around her. The other was a terrible person
Lmao that's valid
Uh three or four that I can remember.
As to why they're exes? One was a witch, one turned out to be a lesbian, one was crazy and a spoiled kid born with a silver spoon in her mouth and I don't remember for the other one.
I have had a few short term relationships that lasted less than a month. I have had 3 that were 6 months and a year. I that was 4 years and I have been married for over 20 years
One. Things just didn't work out, it would probably have ended regardless but an unexpectant pregnancy made her decide to end it. She miscarried a few weeks later, we never really talked after
I wouldn’t say I have any “real” exes. I’ve dated quite a few people in high school but they were all silly teenage flings.
Not this again. Post something that hasn't been asked a million times already.
Shut up Nikki
four girlfriends before... different times of life
high-school, college, after college, and the most recent
different plans, so different ways... mutual decision
I say 4, but technically I only have 3 definite exes.
In cultures, where multiple love partners are allowed, so they may go in dozens
Damn that's pretty wild
In USA and in Europe, all males and females have multiple sex partners
three (third in progress lol )
At age 46, not bad at all isla
lmao, thank you Chiko :D
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4. And they all cheated on me
Oof..
Geez, how much time ya got buddy?
8 for me
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