How many exes have you had?

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If you don't mind sharing, why are they exes?  I might already know some of y'all stories so you don't gotta repeat it lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have had 4 ex’s.
First relationship I ever been was when I was 15 and the guy was 16. Him and I only lasted 3 months, relationship ended because he had made it clear that he no longer wanted to be with me with his actions. Also, I remember asking him what’s been going on with “ us “ - he responded with “ I need a break “ and I remember replying “ you want us break up? “ and then he said “ if that’s what you want to consider it “ . I held my tears , said okay and well I walked away and looked for the closest bathroom near by to cry because if I wouldn’t had asked what’s been happening with him - I would had never found out how he felt about me truly.

second ex, I met him when I started to attend a different high school. I was in sophomore year and he was in his senior year. I was 16 and he was 18. I no longer had my first boyfriend in my mind, I truly did move on. With my second ex, him and I only lasted 3 months together. It ended because it got to the point where he felt stuck in life and he felt that it wouldn’t get any better. He was “ afraid” that I’d end up feeling that way for being with him he told me, he was afraid he’ll pull be down and he did not want that so told me to leave him. Truth is, he was indeed going through life with a different frequency and it was negatively indeed effecting me. His behavior weeks prior him and I had ended things with one another, he was no longer attentive, loving and considerate. So I did end up leaving without feeling any kind of heartache, I cried once thing ended yes but I deep down from my core knew that there was no him and I anymore. It stopped feeling like it was only him and I against the world.

Third ex, the relationship lasted 3 week. I met him few days on Facebook after I had ended things with my second ex. The relationship ended because he told me that he no longer wanted to be in a relationship with me, that he did not want to string me along. I knew from the beginning that him and I did not got into the relationship out of love, it was because he took my v******** and he just wanted to have me in his life to get easy s*** meanwhile I, on the other hand , I stayed because I truly had nothing going on for myself. It was summer time when him and I where dating, him and I would see each other consistently and because I was bored - he made my life less boring. Again.. he was not a boring guy to me. He was funny, good looking. He was a sex addict yes and that was his only flaw from what I knew. Although I did take the tittle of being in a relationship seriously, I knew it was not a serious relationship because I knew he was messing around with other girls while being in a “ relationship “ with me.

Fourth ex, him and I ended things with each other a week ago. We are currently In no contact, him and I met at age 18 different high school. He was a senior and I was a super senior soon to graduate. I was only 3 months away from graduating. So, him and I have been together for a long time. 2 years and a half. after the first year him and I went no contact 3 months. we got back together and after a month or two- again to no contact for 5months this time. We just got back at the end of January. And it was a final breakup a week ago. During the first year the first time I broke up with him three days later we got back together and those breakups attempts from my end became a loop. I attempted to end things with him for 30 times and him and I always got back together to attempt and make the relationship work. Reason why I bring this up is because it seems to me now that it was bound not to work out, all this time he wanted a non monogamous relationship and I wanted to be in a non monogamous relationship. It got to the point where him and I would communicate in a way that we no longer cared about each other feelings, we would see each other cry heavily for the other without feeling any kind of remorse. A lot of yelling. He has said a lot of awful hurtful things to me. A lot was happening that, it was just to much for me. I no longer wanted to feel unsafe and unhappy, and that’s he is an ex now.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

Four. First was from highschool and of course things didn’t work lol. Both of us were too young to know what we wanted. Second one in university. He became controlling and toxic so I ended it. Third- met when I started my first job. He moved to a different town for a new job so things became distant and we stopped seeing each other. Last ex- broke up due to our religion difference (he is a Muslim) The fourth ex is the most serious one.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

How do you define "ex?" Someone I dated once? Someone I dated more than three times? Someone I dated exclusively? Someone who was a sexual partner?

HighValue · Accepted Answer

FYI, many women won't count hook ups as exes, so they could have had 50 + partners and claim they only had a couple exes.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

First one was mean and controlling after quite a few years he stopped treating me like a woman and more like a buddy/roomate. Second one got into meth and wanted me to get into it. I just think so I would buy them with him and help him look for people selling 😂

sheenagwapa · Answer

only one... lack of communication is really the problem. i'm expressive he is the opposite of me but i'm not saying it is his fault because my best friend also before we've been together as friends since first year high school and she also does not share really personal studf so maybe i'm the problem. but when i review myself i am not judgmental and i feel like i'm actually one of the most understanding and nicest person in the crowd.

dustybiker2 · Answer

I had a few disappeared, they don't count anymore. And the others entered the witness protection program so I'm forced to pretend I don't remember them. Lots of paperwork.

MemeSupreme · Answer

3 ACTUAL exes  i have dated guys for like a month or two but it wasn't serious at all so i don't count them

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

three. One of them it just didn’t work out. The other two don’t need to be publicly outted

MissBoogus · Answer

One, it was online lasted about 2 years. He was a predator and terminally ill. After using me for awhile we broke up, and then he died a few months after.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Two. We just weren't compatible and I couldn't be my full shit head self around her. The other was a terrible person

JacobJordan · Answer

0. I went from no girlfriends to a girlfriend then married that girlfriend. Though we never really had the boyfriend girlfriend talk. I asked her out and then a while later I asked her to marry me

Phoenix98 · Answer

Uh three or four that I can remember.

As to why they're exes? One was a witch, one turned out to be a lesbian, one was crazy and a spoiled kid born with a silver spoon in her mouth and I don't remember for the other one.

exitseven · Answer

I have had a few short term relationships that lasted less than a month. I have had 3 that were 6 months and a year. I that was 4 years and I have been married for over 20 years

Drumlin2001 · Answer

One. Things just didn't work out, it would probably have ended regardless but an unexpectant pregnancy made her decide to end it. She miscarried a few weeks later, we never really talked after

Anonymous · Answer

Not this again. Post something that hasn't been asked a million times already.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I wouldn’t say I have any “real” exes. I’ve dated quite a few people in high school but they were all silly teenage flings.

NathanDavis · Answer

four girlfriends before... different times of life high-school, college, after college, and the most recent different plans, so different ways... mutual decision

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I say 4, but technically I only have 3 definite exes.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

In cultures, where multiple love partners are allowed, so they may go in dozens

IslaTheWitch · Answer

three (third in progress lol )

SolitarySolace · Answer

4. And they all cheated on me

spartan55 · Answer

Geez, how much time ya got buddy?

Miah04 · Answer

4. They exes because we no longer date

MsBubba · Answer

8 for me

LazerBean · Answer

Zero

beebella · Answer

Zero 😬

Iron_Man · Answer

Only 1

Lisia · Answer

Two lol

jamesgoldman · Answer

2 and they moved away, I couldn't

euniestars · Answer

One lol

LadyLa820 · Answer

A few

Twalli · Answer

0, none, nada, zilch

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