I (29) started dating this girl (29) in November. She's an MA student from India and we met in September during freshers week and I am in Mphil/PhD. For most part she was nice and she posted our picture on her Instagram wishing me a "happy birthday and thanking me for being part of her "crew" alongwith a ❤️
We started dating in November and things were alright. Until my brother texted me saying that he saw my Facebook account. I had a Facebook (only when I was 17 and I had deleted that one) and I honestly didn't want to create a Facebook because I didn't need one. I have always shared my life updates through WhatsApp to my friends and family.
However, my girlfriend started to coerce me to create a Facebook. She kept saying I should also have a social media and to make one. She had started to get annoyed when I wasn't creating one so I eventually did but didn't upload any pics or add any friends until she started saying to add her ASAP and use our picture on the profile photo instead of using my own picture on my account.
Eventually I did send her the friend request and she added me and put up our photo of us in the snow, acting goofy instead of a romantic pic. She didn't quite like the fact that I didn't use a romantic photo but stopped complaining at least. She said she wanted to show her FB friends and family about her boyfriend but I don't understand because she could have posted our pics on her account so why ask me?
She is quite insecure and very possessive as well. She kinda of stalked my ex girlfriend on Facebook, causing my ex to hide her posts and friends. She knew I was in a relationship when I first met her in September last year yet she used to call me to hangout and I always saw her put on red lipstick whenever I came.
Should I dump her? We are both 29.
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This reminds me of a joke I was told. Here we go...
I was sitting at this bar as a single heterosexual male. I look over at this married couple. They are sitting at the bar, eating and drinking and not really talking to either and they both have this look on their faces like they do not really want to be there.
I look over at this Lesbian couple... they both sitting there with similar looks on their faces not really talking to or engaging with each other.
I look over at this gay couple. The two guys are laughing joking and sharing their drinks together with smiles on their face.
You start to think, maybe the gay guys have figured out what the problem really was. Women are bat shit crazy, and if you can't live with them, then you are better off living without them.
when I went to meet her, she had red lipstick on and her hair was open. She even took selfies together. Then posted that picture on her Instagram writing Happy Birthday my name , thank you for being part of my crew ❤️ I was still with ny girlfriend that time.