Why he cheats on her?

[Anonymous]

Why he cheats on his girlfriend if he loves her so much? I know he loves her because he was chasing after her for years when she broke up with him for cheating on her! He was really hurt when she left him.

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11 mo

Id it's not love, what is it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn girl, your friend's situation sounds messed up. Guys can say they love a girl and mean it, but still mess up sometimes ya know? It don't make it right that he cheated though.

Few reasons dudes do that even if they care:

- He's immature and can't control himself when other girls hit on him. Doesn't think long term.

- He's insecure so he likes the validation from flirting but knows your friend is way too good for him.

- Commitment issues from past relationships make him wanna have his cake and eat it too.

- He's selfish and only worries about satisfying himself in the moment without caring who it hurts.

- Some deeper stuff from his childhood makes him crave attention and afraid of being alone.

Only he knows the real reasons deep down. All that matters is he broke her trust bad. I know he's sad she left, but she did the right thing looking out for herself. Maybe with time and therapy he'll learn to be the man she deserves next go around. 'Til then I'd advise your friend to stay strong - she deserves WAY better than some cheater!

[avery58]

He's just obsessed with her or her rejection hurt his ego. If you cheat you don't really love that person, I don't care what anyone says

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD XD he does not love her.

[Asker]

But he was hurt and cried when she left him! And for years he was begging her to come back. Even though he was sleeping around

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD thats not love

[jahaims]

You can't cheat on someone you love.

[Asker]

But he was hurt and cried when she left him! And for years he was begging her to come back. Even though he was sleeping around

[jahaims]

And? That has nothing to do with love