Why did he block me everywhere?

[kleopatragirlllllll]

My boyfriend has been very cold with me lately. Although I wanted to leave many times, he tried not to leave at first. But it was still cold. I left today and he didn't try to change my mind and blocked me. Why do you think? because he was tired? or depressed?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh that's rough, I'm sorry to hear that. Blocking you everywhere is super harsh :/ From the sounds of it, he was definitely losing interest for a while if he was being cold and distant even when you tried to leave before.

My best guess is yeah, he was probably just tired of the relationship and how things were going. Sometimes guys will pull away when they want out but don't really know how to end it properly. The blocking is a pretty clear sign he's done though, what a jerk move!

He may also be depressed about stuff unrelated to you too, like issues at home or something. But really if he couldn't even be bothered to try change your mind when you left, I don't think his feelings for you were very strong anymore. Still hurts though, I know.

Try not to take it personally - his issues aren't a reflection on you. You're probably better off without someone who'd just block you instead of talking it out. Take some time to treat yourself well and do things that make you happy, and don't waste another thought on that dude! His loss.

[Avicenna]

He may expect that you'll break up with him sometime soon and is just trying to get ready for it. But you should ask him why.

[DishLady]

Ah! This is phase 1 of the “she’s a b…” saga he will tell all his friends, which you won’t see bc you’re blocked. Guys don’t typically block a girl unless they’re worried she’s going to retaliate. Most guys just carry on obliviously after a relationship dissolves, as if they’ve done nothing wrong.

[Anonymous]

How long has it been? He will probably unblock you. You have to find out what’s going on is there any other way of contact

[avery58]

He's probably over the relationship

[Anonymous]

Kids these days!

What can you do?