Why did he block me?

[Anonymous]

I went on a solo long weekend trip to Istanbul and ended up having this intense, unexpected fling with a Turkish guy who worked at a restaurant.

We met randomly when I was out to dinner with a friend, started flirting, talking through Google Translate, drinking Turkish tea, and it just escalated naturally. I stayed with him both nights — we talked for hours, walked around the city late at night, sat by the river, and hooked up. It was very passionate but also weirdly tender; he complimented me constantly, held my hand, walked me home, and said he was sad I was leaving.

After I got back to my country, he messaged me after a few days saying he was thinking about me and asking how I am and asked for my Instagram, and stayed in touch on and off for about two weeks. The conversations were friendly and flirty — he asked about my life, sent photos and videos, even pics of him and his family. I wasn’t emotionally invested and didn’t expect anything serious; it was just a fun, casual thing.

Out of nowhere, after normal conversation and nothing bad being said, he suddenly blocked me.

That’s what’s confusing — because he was the one initiating contact, asking questions, requesting photos, and keeping the conversation going. I never asked for more, never pushed anything, and didn’t expect it to continue — so being blocked so abruptly makes no sense to me

Why did he block?

[Mithat02]

Because he had feelings for you, he constantly had expectations of you. However, since he didn't get the response he expected, he blocked you. By the way, I'm also from Türkiye.

[Asker]

Türkiyeeeee!

I am confused because I didn’t ghost him or not give him any attention, I was messaging him all evening, not sure what I did wrong or which expectations I didn’t meet

[Mithat02]

The problem is that he had expectations of you. He was expecting you to take a step forward in the relationship. But since you didn't reciprocate his feelings, he blocked you. In other words, he gave up on you.

[WhitneySnow]

He was afraid his girlfriend was going to catch him

[Alex-Snow]

I think u are right Whit... One of these days drop me a message I miss some of our convo

[WhitneySnow]

@Alex-Snow sure!!! I will 😊

[Alex-Snow]

Thanks... u rock

[spartan55]

His girlfriend caught him.

[itsannalee]

He is married 😂😂

[Fireguy17]

his wife found out.