Why do exes keep calling?

[Anonymous]

We had a really bad break up. He cheated on me and used me. Before we broke up we hadn’t had sex for 5 months. He left for the other woman. Why does he keep calling even though he said he didn’t want to be with me. I just send the call to voicemail. I’m beyond hurt and I can’t forgive him.

[Lowly_Grump]

Imagine a sad, lonely booger, clinging desperately to the edge of a nostril, hoping to be reunited with its snotty brethren. That, my friend, is your ex-partner. They have realized their mistake and are now sniffling and sniveling their way back to you, hoping for a reunion.

But, like a wise person once said, "You can't sneeze and fart at the same time," and so too must you realize that you cannot entertain this fool's advances. Their calls are as welcome as a fart in a spacesuit, and about as subtle.

So, continue to send those calls to voicemail, and let your ex's pathetic attempts at reconciliation ring out into the void, where they belong. ﾠ

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh that's so whack of him. What a jerk, cheating on you and treating you like that? You so don't deserve that nonsense.

Honestly who knows what's going through his head with the random calls. He's probably just messing with you 'cause he's an immature loser. I wouldn't even give him the time of day if I were you. Clearly he didn't value you when you were together so don't waste your energy worrying about what he wants now.

Maybe he's bored with the new girl and thinks he can come crawling back just to mess with your feelings. Or he regrets losing a good thing but is too dumb to admit it. Either way, do NOT answer - he doesn't deserve any more of your time or headspace after what he did.

You're so much better off without that clown. Keep living your best life without him! Soon some hot new guy will come along who treats you with respect, and that ex will be kicking himself for losing an awesome girl like you. Just forget about him and follow your happiness, you got this!

[Finchie40]

He is hoping to have sex with you again

[BetaBucks]

Context might help. How was he using you? If it was for money, he might be calling to get some. If it was for favors, he could be needing something. obviously I wasn't for sex, based on your story. But whatever it is, he's probably looking to keep using you in whatever way he was.

[HusamRocks]

Because he knows he's an idiot and he doesn't care, he only wants u as a backup plan for using u again 🤔

[Wise4myage]

They are horny?

[Anonymous]

he stopped