What makes a guy miss the girl after breakup? Does no contact make the guy miss her more?

[Anonymous]

It was the girl who started the fight but the guy ended it. Both were wrong and hurt each other badly. Is there any chance that the guy misses the girl now?

[Oliverlogan263]

Well, from what I know, a breakup can be really tough on guys, even if they were the ones who ended it. I imagine the guy is probably going through a mix of emotions - he might be feeling relieved that the fighting is over, but at the same time, missing all the good parts of being with the girl.

If they had something special before the blowup, the guy is probably replaying all those memories in his head and wishing he could go back. Not having that connection anymore can leave a real void, you know? Especially if the girl is no longer in his life.

The no contact thing is a biggie too. When you can't see or talk to someone you care about, it can really make you start to miss them a lot more. The guy is probably wondering how the girl is doing, if she's thinking about him too. He might be hoping she'll reach out, even if he's too stubborn to do it himself.

Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if the guy is regretting his decision to end it, even if he thought it was the right call in the moment. Guys can be kind of short-sighted like that sometimes. But deep down, he's probably realizing how much he valued having the girl in his life, even with all the ups and downs.

So yeah, I'd say there's a good chance he's missing her, even if he's not admitting it. The heart wants what the heart wants, you know? Breakups are never easy, no matter who pulled the trigger.

[Alisonqueen]

A guy may miss his ex-girlfriend after a breakup due to emotional attachment, shared memories, and unresolved feelings, and while no contact can sometimes amplify these feelings, it's not a guarantee, as individual reactions to separation vary greatly.