Have you ever been falsely arrested because of a partner’s lies?

[Finchie40]

I was arrested by my crazy ex wife a few weeks ago for her attacking me while I was sleeping on bed , she came into my bedroom like a bat out of hell and smacked me hard across the face , I immediately jumped got up and grabbed her to calm her down because she was having another manic episode , which she suffered with for a long time. Another reason she became my ex , her mental illness is something I thought I could handle but I realized I couldn’t , because she got worse and worse through the years , and when she hit menopause that was the end for me , because she completely lost her mind. The cops arrested me because she was showing a little bit of blood on her wrist from me holding her down while she was kicking and screaming at me for no reason at all. I told the cops you are arresting the wrong guy. I said you guys’ been to my home a handful of times for her break downs , but the cops said since she is showing blood I got to take you away. So I went to jail and had to sit in a holding cell all night into Saturday afternoon until I saw the judge. The judge released me but said i now have a PFA against me that prevents me from going anywhere near her , I just shook my head and called my son to come pick me up. The girl lost her fucking mind. So for 2 weeks I had to stay at friends’ houses and hotels until the court date , when I went to court I told my side of the story and the judge dropped all the charges from me and my ex got sentenced to go seek medical help immediately and that she is no longer allowed near me until she shows improvement. I honestly felt like Jonny Depp lol Have you ever been falsely arrested? What happened?

[msc545]

Yes my ex-wife got me arrested twice simply by calling the cops having them come to the house without my knowledge ahead of time and then lying to them and saying that I had threatened her. Where I live here in Southern California. If a woman accuses you of anything the cops don't bother to try to get any evidence or any proof. They just arrest you and take you to jail. That being said, however I also was not charged either time and the cops told me up front that they simply didn't believe her but they had to arrest me anyway or they would get in trouble with their superiors.

[DryGermanGuy]

WTF is going on with your justice system? 😵

[msc545]

Women are treated as victims and men are treated with as perpetrators in virtually. Every case of supposed domestic violence. Men who report domestic violence with women is the perpetrators are often arrested.

[Finchie40]

It’s like that here in Pennsylvania as well , the court systems favor the female which is a bunch of bullshit , if I didn’t have proof that she was crazy , I would of probably lost my home and she would of gained it. At my PFA hearing I presented all the evidence and police reports that were called on my home for her having mental breakdowns , she has been put in mental wards a handful of times , I know now that I should of walked away a long time ago , but I loved her and thought I could handle her breakdowns once I did a lot of research on it , because underneath her mental illness , she is a sweet loving caring girl , the girl I fell in love with , but unfortunately her mental illness is something I couldn’t handle , it just got worse and worse through the years and it came down to me being arrested for it. It would be one thing if I bashed her face in or broke her bones , but I did none of that , all I did was grab her to calm her down because she was going ballistic with her mental rage , but since I gripped her wrists hard , she ended up getting a little scratch that bled so the cops took me away. I told the cops you arrested the wrong guy , but they said they are just doing their job, they know they been to my home a handful of times for her crazy ass. I feel bad for whatever guy falls for her, because she is going to make his life a living hell.

[molonski2]

I haven't been actually arrested but was part of a dawn raid 5am Special operations , around 11 police in full kit , little embarrassing in front of the neighbors.

Looking for someone else... Went though everything made a giant mess , broke down the new door and deadlock.

[sage2021]

I was wondering where you've been lately.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

I guess you didn't sell your house in time to start your new life away from her.

I wasn't exactly arrested but let's just say that I had to see a judge and I am never allowed to go into the city of Corte Madero anymore.🫤

[Finchie40]

Thanks Sage , yea I just went through a world of hell for no reason at all , she is mentally unstable and needs serious help , I never been arrested in my life and getting arrested over a girl that I loved with all my heart that decided to be selfish and ruin our marriage was a wake up call to never accept a girl into my life that has mental health issues. Moving forward I am only dating younger girls’ because I can not experience a girl going through menopause ever again , I now have PTSD from the word Menopause 😂 So younger girl is my next move , so by the time she reaches menopause stage , I will more than likely be dead lol

[sage2021]

Sounds like a plan! 👍🏼🙂

[Agape93]

I've been falsely arrested before, but not because of them lying.

[Anonymous]

I got a barring order for threatening my wife

Things were not good between us. I flipped and threatened her.

She was within her rights and Monday evening police arrived and told me I had 30 minutes to leave the house.

That was 3 years ago. Since then I got a conviction. Things between us are not good but co existing.
Still sleep together and have sex but that's about it.

Who knows what's going to happen between us.

[msc545]

Brother, I will tell you from sad experience that you better get out of that house and away from that woman. She's going to have you arrested again and again. If you don't. She is now found out that all she has to do is tell the cops that she's afraid of you or that you've threatened her and off you go to jail.

[Opinion Owner]

You know that is a question I still have

Because we're now back in the bed together

And maybe I should just separate

[msc545]

She will do it again and it might be that you have to have that experience. In order to understand that this relationship is not going to ever work for you. She can get rid of you at any time and will whenever she feels like it or gets a little bit angry.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm admitting I did threaten her

But she didn't have to call the police

But meantime I gave up alcohol
That has changed by behaviour
And as long as I don't threaten her
I don't think she will can the police
It's not a happy home but what can I do? I like and live my children
She's just a tough bitch

[msc545]

She knows she can do it with one phone call now, and she will do it whenever it's convenient for her. Count on it. Once they realize they have this kind of power, they use it.

[Finchie40]

I agree with msc545 , you have to get away from that bitch , a girl that can call the cops on you over an argument , is a girl that will call the cops on you again. When things don’t go her way , she plays a victim everytime , even if she cheated on you

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it's difficult situation
At the time I thought we would split
As time has gone by we're just both co existing
Factors in equation
. Children
. House
. Being single
. Sex

[msc545]

Even if you aren't married, the children in the house are things that are going to have to be worked out legally probably. Being single and the sex are going to be issues right? Until you find another woman who is hopefully a better woman than the one you have now. Remember that the best cure for a woman is another woman and I would add to that a better woman. You need to make these changes because you're going to wind up in jail or ultimately even in prison if you don't get rid of the woman you have now. She's not going to magically become good. She will always be a problem for you and the longer you stick around the worse the problem is going to get.

[lorenzomichael]

Yup that fucking bitch. And then after she said, I didn’t say that. I told her it’s OK. I didn’t believe the cops anyways. But listen on Friday let’s go to bubba Gumps for dinner. She said yeah that sounds great after ordering the mahi-mahi three shots of Jack Daniels and two Modelo beers I excuse myself to go to the bathroom and walk right out the front door got in my car. And Left your ass there.

[NathanDavis]

not even close, no

[robocop666]

You should have moved out decades ago. This woman is nuts.

[msc545]

You are completely right about this. The problem is that when the sex is really good. For most men, it's very hard to leave when that is present.

[robocop666]

@msc545 they were separate (separate rooms and not together) for decades and he thought he could live happily but it got worse

[msc545]

That's just horrible.

[Finchie40]

Yea I tried to be mutual with her until we sold the house but she is a basket case and a half and now she is no longer in my home and if she comes anywhere near here she will be arrested because now I have a PFA on her ass now. It didn’t have to go this far but she dug her own grave with this shit. She needs serious help

[msc545]

What is a PFA? Here, where I live, we call it a restraining order. Is it the same thing?

[FunkyMonkee]

No, but my brother has, twice!!

[Anonymous]

Im an ex lesbian. Yes I have.

[msc545]

How can you be an ex-lesbian that you all of a sudden decide you are no longer interested in women?

[Opinion Owner]

@msc545 I decided women are too much trouble and found a man to settle down and have kids with. I know plenty of ex lesbians who have done the same, one of them is an ex of mine.

[Desserter4]

I did it and I'll do it again!

[Alex-Snow]

Nope and I'd hope to not have that happen

[msc545]

Hang around with the wrong woman or let women into your house or apartment, and you will have it happen eventually.

[Finchie40]

Exactly

[jahaims]

No, I don't associate with crazys