How do I safely co‑parent with a toxic ex who lives out of state?

[Anonymous]

My ex is toxic towards by saying I’m a terrible mother, he had spit in my face in arguments and etc in the past. He lives out of state but ofc he wants to see our son what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm only hearing stuff about him, yet you're still communicating with him and posting it on social media which leds to believe you're leaving something or just sympathy seeking.

But if what you're saying is true just make him pay child support and tell him to fuck off which i am pretty you'll do mental gymnastics to justify communicating with him if he is really shitty person you make him out to be or you'll respond with how you think it's important to have the father in his son's life or something stupid like that.

So which means you're okay with your son watching the father spit in your face and talking to you like that?

Or he might actually be a good and you're mad he gets split custody?

[Nikki1989]

Go for full custody.

[RachyRach]

Get full custody

[MasterKS]

Break up.