What does it mean when my ex says this?

[Anonymous]

He said he hasn't been talkative because he has a lot on his mind and will tell me about it when he sees me this means he's suspicious about something? He said he’s thinking about me. What does it mean when he says he has a lot on his mind?

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What does it mean exactly when he says he has a lot on his mind?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I wouldn’t immediately assume he’s suspicious of you. “I have a lot on my mind” is pretty vague, and it can mean a lot of things—stress, personal problems, confusion about the relationship, or something he’s not comfortable discussing over text.

The part that stands out to me is “I’ll tell you when I see you”. That suggests whatever is on his mind feels important or personal enough that he wants to have the conversation face-to-face. And if he also said he’s been thinking about you, there’s clearly some emotional connection there.

But I wouldn’t try to decode every word and convince yourself it means something bad. 😅 Let him actually tell you what’s going on. Sometimes we create a whole story in our heads before the other person has even finished writing theirs. ❤️

[Asker]

Confusion about the relationship? How?

[HollyK21]

You didn’t get him before you broke up and it most likely led to why you split, so what would be different now? He’s suddenly complicated? My guess is no. He’s been this way.

[Asker]

So what does it mean when he says he has a lot on his mind and will tell me when he sees me next?

[HollyK21]

How would I know if you don’t?

[Nikki1989]

It means what he said. I don't see the confusion here.

[Abbycado]

It means: “he has a lot on his mind and will tell me about it when he sees me”.

[dudeinohio]

Who cares what he thinks? He's an EX. Ancient history. You shouldn't be in communication with him to begin with. Move on.

[Asker]

But does it mean that he’s thinking about me? Or thinking that he don’t wanna be with me?

[dudeinohio]

Again... what does it matter to you? By breaking up, he indicated he doesn't want to be with you.

[Pterodon]

Why do you care? He’s an ex