Girls have you ever stalked a guy?

[kriskiss]

Just wondering if you ever stalked a guy? If so was it a guy you never dated or hooked up with, a boyfriend, ex boyfriend, etc?

What made you want to stalk him was it Because you were in love/lust? And what made you stalk him...was it Because of his looks alone? were you in love? was he a ladies man? or like another girl besides you or have a girlfriend.

just wondering. I know guys stalk girls. but was curious what makes a guy stalk worthy? good in bed? or whatever it may be? and at what point did you give up stalking or did your stalking ever pay off :P(if you catch my drift)?

[Anonymous]

yes I have! and I'm not ashamed because it was harmless, I didn't go to his house or anything! we went to school together and I knew where his class was so I just wanted to try to run into him and say hi! may be just look at him and see how he's doing...may be see if he's delighted to see me too? I only did it a few times not excessively. we never dated/hooked up.

what made me stalk him? I liked him for several years, it wasn't looks, I just liked him for him. I do believe I loved him. he did seem to have a lot of female friends and was a flirt =/

theres no such thing as 'stalk worthy' no set formula for that...its plain and simple, if a girl likes a guy, she will try to be around him and just interact with him more aka stalking...

but I don't believe in the crime version of stalking like you see in the movies, like going to their house and watching them through the window and catching them naked and invading their privacy that's just all wrong id never do that.

[JustMeL120]

You didn't stalk a guy. I was stalk buy a sexual predator for almost three years and he definatly wasn't in love with me. I hate it when people use the word stalking when they dont know what it is. I was realy stalked. It was horible. I went out of my house i saw his car. He knew all my friends all my family he groomed all of them. Even if you went to a guys house you love to talk to him thats not stalking tgat just you are in live and the guy isn't clear with you about his feelings. If guys to want to be constantly contacted by girls they should be straight with them.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

I hate myself for doing it, I felt, and still do, feel very ashamed.

We were ex's, I was missing him hugely. It started because he lives on the way to the gym and the shops... so all it was was one turn out of my way. But because we weren't speaking it started to built. I heard he was seeing someone else, I wanted to verify it, I wanted to know if he was home. I did see him leaving his house with a girl and taking her home. I went home and threw up.

His parents told him to go to the police. He didn't. On some level he knew I just missed him so much, being 'close' to him helped.

I did go to counselling, I hate what I did, it was so wrong. He forgave me, but I never forgave myself. As for if it paid off, we are together now, working on things. It wasn't the stalking that did that though ha.

[allpro]

Awww... What's wrong with I just missed him so much... I do want to look for my girl I loved... I would say checking him out... But that's just me...

[allpro]

Just look at Indian_empress_91 coments..

[scooogy]

I recently have a girl at least act stalkish towards me, as in she always glances at me when passing by. This started about 2 years ago, and continues eversince. I asked her three times why she did this. On the third try I even went to a counsellor on campus and she talked to that girl and told her that if she didn't stop this, I'd consider legal consequences. She promised her that she wouldn't hit on me on purpose anymore. She even stopped glancing at me for a while whenever she ran into me by accident. Yet after that time, so months after that, she did see me again, as I brang a girl to the bus near campus, and as I walked back to where my bike was, I saw this girl walking along, and she must have noticed me and that other girl since we were kind of screaming for the bus to wait, anyways I already noticed her from the corner of the eye and just ignored her. But just before passing by, she again glanced at me like this "look at me-look away-look at me-look away" really quickly

[scooogy]

But until today I can't figure out why she still does this. I mean, 2 years of me being clueless and having asked her, and all she said was I was wrong and it never happened on purpose. Then after a while she told the counsellor otherwise. In the beginning of everything she also figured out where I live, even though she only showed up there once. But she also once showed up in the cantine out of nowhere, sitting down right in front of me, without talking or anything.

[BrighteyedAsh]

Never have, and can't imagine I ever would. I have jokingly teased my boyfriend "I just hope we stay together." and continue in a menacing sing song tone. "I would hate to end up a psycho ex...you know. But that won't ever happen, will it! :high pitch: So nothing to worry about." :cheesy smile: Usually during prodding. He knows it would never happen but it's fun to tease with him. It usually ends in ribbing and poking each other and a kiss.

[indian_empress_91]

I would never...I don't have too much pride to ask a guy out...but I have way too much pride and I am too lazy when it comes to following a guy...f*** that sh*t lol... if I like ya I tell ya and if you don't want me...well watever...I have never and will never stalk a man...unless it;s my husband and I wanna catch him cheating or something lol

[Primrose]

my friend has. she's a PRO. ha ha she didn't follow him, she used his instagram, his sister's instagram, deceased grandparent's obituary, Facebook, common knowledge, his work address and somehow managed to find his address. that's as far as she's gone though.

[reneewg]

Yeah I stalk guys that I'm interested with and he know I stalk anyway lol thou I stop stalking when I stop falling for him :p

well stalk is trying to know him more ? example this guy I stalk him check his birthday and wanna give him a surprised etc

so far doesn't pay off lol only disappointment :p

[Anonymous]

I helped a friend sort of stalk a guy she liked...We knew he went to the same college as us and we knew his program, but she never ran into him except when he came into where she worked...Anyway, on breaks we would walk through the building we knew his calsses were in to see if we could run into him. We never did lol and she lost interest, but I guess you could count that as stalking...

[Anonymous]

i have stalked a guy who I was interested in but never hooked up with him.. we had that close connection and unbreakable bond when we were on speaking terms...we don't talk anymore that's why I stalk him lol

[Alexias]

Well everybody Facebook stalks, but if you're talking about following him home in my car and hiding whenever he looks around then no, I have not amped up my stalking game.

[justme20]

No. Guys come and guys go. Once one leaves another comes into your life 15 minutes later. Really no need to stalk.

[Anonymous]

I've Facebook stalked, but I can't imagine going as far as real stalking.

I Facebook stalk everyone though (my sister, cousins, mom, friends, boyfriend, guy I met at a bar last night) because going through people's pictures is fun.

[Anonymous]

When I was like 13, my mom and I went of our way to drive past a guy's house once :P We knew it was silly though, we weren't doing it in a serious way.

He was a short crush, never dated.

[Anonymous]

I search him on FB every now and then... it is a habit... I do it without realizing I am! his profile is private so I just see one pic...it's my ex by the way.

[Anonymous]

A guy said I did in high school. But it was so stupid because I was just getting to a class that we had together and there was only one hall to get to. But I wasn't stalking him, I was walking to class.

[jpinka]

no but this is a good question. I would never stalk a guy I don't even go crazy over celebrities

[MeAndAHalf]

Never knew guys actually stalked girls! Why do you do that?

[allpro]

Love... :/

[Anonymous]

You think you would get an honest answer? Females stalk as bad or worse than guys.

[iPood]

Best answer. Females call guys creepy all the time but females are 500% creepier than most guys

[Opinion Owner]

And you should know :)

[Meedo]

how are they 500% creepier?

[Opinion Owner]

They burn down men's homes, stand at the door and knock for hours, break numerous restraining orders etc etc

[Anonymous]

I Facebook stalk guys who are hot

If you mean stalking for real, no, I'm not crazy

[Anonymous]

the most I've done is cyber stalking. I don't stalk outside of that lol

[Anonymous]

I stalked him online because we just broke up and I wasn't ready yet

[Anonymous]

yeah and we are now getting married lol

[KingsOfleon88]

LOL

[kriskiss]

seriously?

[reneewg]

omg really that's great ... that encouraging me to stalk more LOL

[Opinion Owner]

yeah lol . He caught my eye and I had to have him lol it was at a train station walked away wiv his number and a 20.00 fine lol

[rocksongwriter]

You were fined for getting his number?

[emzy-89]

no, I'm not a criminal

[Lj236]

I guess by the down votes they wish you did stalk guys lol:p

[emzy-89]

i guess so. lol.

[kriskiss]

nice rack.

[emzy-89]

thanks

[Anonymous]

Only for 3 blocks.

[luvbug1984]

Fac3book lol

[Anonymous]

Yes. Facebook and instagram via Facebook.

[Anonymous]

FAcebook but that's it

[Anonymous]

all the time -especially on Facebook

[Anonymous]

FB stalking, yes.

[Anonymous]

No.

[Opinion Owner]

But couple of years ago (when I was in junior college),I had this weird feeling that a guy in my class is stalking me (use to stare a lot too,which was creepy) cause he was everywhere I go. [even my freinds told me they always see him him around me or walking behind me. He even followed me home! We lived in different neighbour hood. He had bike but he ask his friend to drop his (stalker's) girlfriend home] It really freaked me out.eing stalked is not flattering,it's really scary