Guys , have you ever had a girl pursue you?

[Anonymous]

Guys have you had a girl put in a real effort to get your attention and pursue you? If so what's it like?

Ladies have you ever pursued a guy before with real effort because you really wanted him?

[Guy13]

They make themselves known as available. They already treat you like you are their “spouse”. It can be frightening but the pleasure and increased pleasures are discretely made plain.

one knows it when it is happening

[Asker]

Interesting... thanks for the insight.

[Guy13]

Yep... good luck !!

[HighValue]

Yes, multiple times. Some of them get angry and spiteful when I am not interested. I had a couple of them try to sabotage me at work after I wasn't interested in them.

Another tried and it was going well until I found out she had tattoos and wanted a lot more. Then I lost interest, but at least that one didn't hold a grudge when I wasn't interested.

The last one that did was married and had kids. Of course I was not interested in someone like that.

[Asker]

Wow.. thanks for the reply

[Nxtawm]

Not rlly pursue ig since I’ve never liked a guy enough (never had a real crush). But recently I did like this one dude a bit (a friend), I just confessed to get it out of my head and so I could move on. Got some wack response but we’re still friends like before (no change or nothing but happened)

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply

[Anonymous]

Yes, but two of them already had partners and were looking to 'trade up'. One lied saying she was single but her partner lived in a different town, and the other had a partner in a different country. Others that pursued would approach, flirt, touch or just rub up against my body like a cat does. But thinking about it, most women that showed interest or pursued, the majority of them already had partners or were married. And they wonder why I prefer being single...

[Asker]

But still... it must have felt good to have women pursue you...

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, there is no denying it feels good to be desired.

[TroyDT2]

I had a stalker who sent me flowers every weekday for a month. I ended up dating the girl from the flower shop who did the deliveries.

[Asker]

Sorry the funny and awesome at the same time. 😁

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t believe so, however, there was this one time we were enjoying one another’s company and it Barely looked like she kept leaning closer like, “what, you want a kiss”? Though that would have been a SO NOT stupendous time to do something like that so eh….

[Asker]

Gotcha thanks for the reply

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You are welcome

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

I had, but I can't tell you what it was like because I was 100% clueless most of the time.

[Asker]

Most guys are not use to it.

[NathanDavis]

yes, but no

yes, they did approach first, made their moves...

but no, it was not a pursuit

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply

[NathanDavis]

no problemo... by the way, I do not have to chase them either, they were right there in front oi me already, lol

[Baseballgem4for4]

All the time. But I’m good looking. I blow it wity my anxiety and awkwardness I’m so terrible with flirting

[Asker]

You are a lucky bugger in one aspect... and not so lucky in another lol

[Anonymous]

Depends what you classify as "real effort". Yes, I've had women ask me out before. But none I'd consider that put a lot of effort into it.

[Asker]

"Real effort" I mean they don't take no for an answer they pursue you for to try and get your attention

[FilmGuy93]

Yes! Several times.

[Asker]

Lucky bastard 🤣

[BobbieBoy666]

Back when I was 24 years old my sister's friend asked her if she can ask me out. 💞

[Anonymous]

depends on who it is and if i like that person just as much or not at all

[In_Trance]

yes I have

[Asker]

Lucky bugger 😁

[athelete_7]

Never.

[Asker]

Yeah same here