how long has it been with not contact? 2.5 years is a long time, and the brain stores that. It will go away, eventually. Considering how your ex was to you, it's likely it will linger a while.
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Your best bet is to tell he memory to f*** off. Kick her out of your mind.
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It's normal. And the memories of some people can't be erased whether we try to do so or not. Trust me on that. Despite the fact you have a girlfriend, your ex did still maintains an important part in your life, and that's why you think of her everyday. Best to keep her as a friend at least so you won't jeopardize your current relationship.
no one forgets their first love. I still think of my guy everyday even though he was a jerk to me and broke my heart. I wish he would contact me.
its normal. but I think you need closure. you should contact her as a friend and get some answers and find your closure. ask her if she has feelings for you and what she is up to in life...
that's really sweet on your part, but not healthy because it can lead to an obsession! That happened to me once. I led the poor fellow on and he started cutting :(
How long has it been since you cut it off with her?
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It's normal because you're attracted to her.
Just contact her as a friend and nothing more. Serve your flirty side for your girlfriend.Completely normal.
It doesn't ever go away.
Just less obnoxious eventually.
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