You two are away from other people and in a calm, reflective state of mind. You gently place a hand behind her neck like you will caress her hair, then bend and gently kiss her on the cheek as you would a baby. If she squeals and jumps like a frightened cat, however, you must say excuse me I tripped over my foot, et cetera.
But in the case you describe, however, she will turn towards you. You then kiss her fully on the lips as you wrap your arms around her and pull her to your chest. Do not stick your tongue in her mouth. Pucker your lips slightly with slight suction. Hold the kiss at least 3 seconds or as long as she herself maintains contact. Do not salivate all over her (yes it's hard not to with a beautiful girl lol).
All romances in the Western hemisphere begin just like this. After kissing as long as she wants, you can then tell her how much you like her and say wow! now we're boyfriend and girlfriend. Then hug her and kiss her again.
Borrow the cash if you must, but go buy a rose and give it to her that day or the next. If you can afford it and conditions allow, take her to a movie, skating, or maybe a hike--you know, those things committed couples do.
Lick your lips and look at her/his nose when you go in for the kill bru
My first kiss with my bf was... Kinda funny. It was his first kiss, and he didn't see it coming! He was about to leave college for the summer so I knew I had to do it NOW. So when we were hugging goodbye I pulled my head away, softly said "come here" and laid one one him. Gently. He was really surprised but when I pulled away he has the biggest smile and we kissed again. As far as technique goes, it wasn't a ver good kiss. He had too much suction and teeth lol. But it was still one of the sweetest moments I've ever had. My knees were shaking for an hour. The point is, it doesn't matter that much how "good" it is. How you feel about each other is what makes the magic. He's become a great kisser with time, and you will too! Just pay attention to how she kisses you and you'll learn how she likes it :)
Don't be afraid to try new things, too. Switch up soft kissing with some more passionate stuff, throw in some nibbling and tongue and you got a lot of stuff to play with. Don't rush it. Let it grow naturally.
Wait until a moment arises while you're alone, a lull in the conversation or some such. Something that builds up a little tension between the two of you. Try and catch her eye, when she sees you and she looks back, flicker your gaze between her eyes and her lips. She'll get the hint, and likely mirror it. Then lean in. Use the ''Hitch'' method. Slowly lean 80% of the way in, while looking at her lips. If she's into it, she'll lean the extra 20%. When kissing, don't use tongue. Only introduce that when you're both comfortable. Just brush your lips against hers and you'll feel it come naturally. :)
Tip: take a little baking soda or toothpaste on the tip of your tooth brush and exfoliate your lips for that day or night you are gonna kiss that girl. Don't exfoliate too hard you will hurt your lips. Do it in a circular motion.
Your first kiss doesn't need to have tongue since you both never kissed before. Use your lips for now.
Just grab her chin, look into her eyes, then look at her lips with a subtly but sensual look, tell her to close her eyes in a sexy whisper tone, and then lick ur lips just a little and plant a kiss on her.
Kiss her slowly and softly.
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eat jello from a tiny plastic shot glass using only your mouth, kiss a mirror, and practice fishy faces, that should help you practice kissing but as for doing it. watch corny chick flicks with first kisses like the notebook and dear john, every girl likes to be kissed like that.
the stupid hair brush back behind ear move face toward yours and move in for the kill.
I'm 18 and I've been kissed literally twice. Its fine.
But stressing about it, and trying to plan it will just make it more awkward.
I've never kissed anyone before either lol.
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