What is the best position for a woman to have sex in for her first time?

[Anonymous]

what is the best position for a woman to have sex in for her first time? what would be the least painful way and how long does it hurt her?

[Sex_Panther]

There is no definitive position. I would recommend something where she feels in control but really it's a matter of alleviating anxiety. Generally speaking that's not done in missionary with everything all showin' but it's popular.

It can not hurt at all or hurt for days, not something that's actually controllable in part, and the least painful way to do the whole hymen thing is for her to break it herself. IF you intend to break it she has to relax but beyond that it's just not going to lessened by anything more than state of mind. It's sort of like when you push a pin against your body and it hurts less than when someone else does it even with the same level of awareness.

[kineticgirl21]

You just have to see what she's comfortable with, and accept that a first time is always going to be clumsy.

Let her decide what way she wants to do things, but if she's nervous, help her along

Just be gentle, understanding and do your best to warm her up beforehand, it will relax her and maybe it will hurt a little less, if you just barrel into her its gonna be agony

[Anonymous]

Let her get on top. I learned this from experience. It'll probably scare her and intimidate her as he first position. But any other position makes her too tight. But when she's on top she can control everything and it's easier

[throwit]

I like trying in missionary. My bf is huge and he has yet to get it more than a few inches in. Being on top is too hard for me, when I'm on meh back I can relax all my muscles in my lower body and its just way more comfortable

[JazzyKnowsBest]

Missionary and it stops hurting the 3rd penetration. That's when you actually start to enjoy sex as in sex and not something painful

[LoveSmallSizes]

The one she is comfortable with. The last thing you want the first time is to freak her out.

[COCOCHANEL]

missionary is the best. it feels natural.

[Veritasharvard]

Missionary